6 Ways to Find Your Soulmate
This isn’t your typical “do this and that” article. These tips actually work.
3. Go out alone
It will show your confidence and make you that much more approachable. Even if you don’t snag a date, it’s bound to be an enlightening experience. I find that when I’m alone without the distractions of my laptop, my phone (please don’t sit at the bar with your smartphone out; you want to look alluring, not preoccupied!), and everything that needs doing at home or at work, I tend to have my most “ah-ha” moments. My mind slows down and I can see the situations in my life in a more objective way. Give it a go on your next free night. If it’s a terrible, horrible, no-good experience, you can always leave. I don’t think you’ll hate it; in fact I think you’ll be pleasantly surprised.
Think about it. How intimidated do you feel when you see a cute guy surrounded by a group of friends? On the other hand, when you see a guy alone cradling a beer, idly staring at the peanut bowl, it’s way easier to make the first move. Oh, that’s the other thing…