Six Ways to Find Your Soulmate

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6 Ways to Find Your Soulmate

This isn’t your typical “do this and that” article. These tips actually work.

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3. Go out alone

It will show your confidence and make you that much more approachable. Even if you don’t snag a date, it’s bound to be an enlightening experience. I find that when I’m alone without the distractions of my laptop, my phone (please don’t sit at the bar with your smartphone out; you want to look alluring, not preoccupied!), and everything that needs doing at home or at work, I tend to have my most “ah-ha” moments. My mind slows down and I can see the situations in my life in a more objective way. Give it a go on your next free night. If it’s a terrible, horrible, no-good experience, you can always leave. I don’t think you’ll hate it; in fact I think you’ll be pleasantly surprised.

6 Ways to Find Your Soulmate

Think about it. How intimidated do you feel when you see a cute guy surrounded by a group of friends? On the other hand, when you see a guy alone cradling a beer, idly staring at the peanut bowl, it’s way easier to make the first move. Oh, that’s the other thing…

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Raised in California and North Carolina, Jen is both an actress and a writer. She loves writing fiction, especially for young adults, and exercising her non-fiction muscles through Urbanette and her chocolate blog: Chocofiles. Jen also loves adventures, yoga, live music and spontaneous dance parties.

Reader Discussion: 88 Comments

  1. Jennifer varner

    Love it! 💖 Such a well thought out article 💖

  2. Mary Beyer

    Be prepared to compromise!!! #soulmate

  3. Thank you so much! Your article put so many things in perspective for me.

  4. Interesting article! It’s worth reading. Simple but enjoyable.

  5. Della Martin

    More often than not, we overlook the signals of incompatibility and settle for less. These are all helpful, Jennifer!

  6. Zoraida Martin

    Soulmate?! I think it’s a dopey concept…

    • Jannie Zoot

      I don’t think so, there’s definitely something that can exist between two people, something so strong and disruptive we can’t really understand

  7. Rosalia Russell

    I wonder — what’s the difference between soulmate and life partner?! 🤔

    • car

      I once met someone, we had the same thoughts at the same time, we were really somehow soulmate… but then it ended, do we have many soulmates or what?

  8. Lucy

    I want to find my soulmate, someone who deserves the very best from me (and vice versa)

  9. Elizabeth Gonzalez

    To find your soulmate, be selfless! 💗

  10. Carmen Griffin

    I’ve always believed that my soulmate is someone who meets my unconscious list of traits I’m looking for in a partner…

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