Six Ways to Find Your Soulmate

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6 Ways to Find Your Soulmate

This isn’t your typical “do this and that” article. These tips actually work.

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6. Decide that you are worth it

I am totally convinced that worthiness is more often a decision than a feeling. A decision is active. It is something you can either choose to do or not. A feeling, on the other hand, is fickle. It’s bound to come and go and reinvent itself a million times—and then change yet again. So don’t rely on a feeling of worthiness. Choose to know that you are worthy, and it will be much easier to keep moving forward.

6 Ways to Find Your Soulmate

As you start to meet potential mates, remember that you are worthy not only of “love,” but of tenderness, of being cherished and admired as well as desired. Nurture this line of thinking, and you’ll be well on your way to attaining all that you desire, not just finding your soulmate.

 How do you search for your soulmate?
If you’ve already found yours, then spill!
Give us your wisdom below. 

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Raised in California and North Carolina, Jen is both an actress and a writer. She loves writing fiction, especially for young adults, and exercising her non-fiction muscles through Urbanette and her chocolate blog: Chocofiles. Jen also loves adventures, yoga, live music and spontaneous dance parties.

Reader Discussion: 88 Comments

  1. Jennifer varner

    Love it! 💖 Such a well thought out article 💖

  2. Mary Beyer

    Be prepared to compromise!!! #soulmate

  3. Thank you so much! Your article put so many things in perspective for me.

  4. Interesting article! It’s worth reading. Simple but enjoyable.

  5. Della Martin

    More often than not, we overlook the signals of incompatibility and settle for less. These are all helpful, Jennifer!

  6. Zoraida Martin

    Soulmate?! I think it’s a dopey concept…

    • Jannie Zoot

      I don’t think so, there’s definitely something that can exist between two people, something so strong and disruptive we can’t really understand

  7. Rosalia Russell

    I wonder — what’s the difference between soulmate and life partner?! 🤔

    • car

      I once met someone, we had the same thoughts at the same time, we were really somehow soulmate… but then it ended, do we have many soulmates or what?

  8. Lucy

    I want to find my soulmate, someone who deserves the very best from me (and vice versa)

  9. Elizabeth Gonzalez

    To find your soulmate, be selfless! 💗

  10. Carmen Griffin

    I’ve always believed that my soulmate is someone who meets my unconscious list of traits I’m looking for in a partner…

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