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Men Answer Your Questions About Love

Is your man in love? Will he fall for you? Men answer: How to tell.


How do I know when it’s time to tell him my feelings?

I’ve been seeing a man for only two months. Perfect guy. He’s funny, has a great job, I love hanging out with him. We even took this great weekend vacation together and everything seemed to click. I just have this feeling that this is going to work, and I’m pretty sure he feels the same way. I don’t want to blow it, and while I obviously don’t want to pretend to be somebody that I’m not, I also don’t want to do anything that could jeopardize the relationship. Any hints for how to take things from here?

Men Answer Your Questions About Love

Two months may seem like a blip on the relationship radar, but for some guys, that qualifies as a full-fledged era. At this point, men certainly want some honesty. “If she is more open with me, I’ll be more open with her, especially at the beginning when you’re both feeling each other out, emotionally,” says Warren, 33. But that comes with a caution. Feel free to be honest about your feelings, but don’t make assumptions about his. Don’t use the word us. At this stage, you’ll solidify your primo status if you talk about what you like about him, what you get out of a relationship with him, what turns you on about him. Us scares him; him excites him. (Yes, we’re our own favorite subject, but that’s just human nature.) It’s a way of saying you love the relationship while giving him the ego-boosting rush he craves — all without making him think you’re brushing up on the four Cs of diamond shopping. At this still-early stage, that’s a secret to tip-toeing between giving him permission to love and giving him a reason to leave.

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Reader Discussion: 80 Comments

  1. I believe men need more understanding when it comes to matters of the heart. They do not speak what they feel which usually cause miscommunication.

  2. Thanks for writing, Sarah! Men and women need to meet halfway if they want to succeed in love!

  3. Men are completely different from us, women. And it’s essential that if you love your man, you need to understand him and make sure he knows you do.

  4. Jamie Wurst

    I’ve observed that often times falling in love leaves a man completely vulnerable which is somehow frightening him…

  5. Alta Johnson

    Oh love! Sometimes, I find it hard to communicate and compromise with my man.

  6. Laverne Pollard

    I know for a fact that relationships need a LOT of effort but most of the time, it’s not easy to figure out where I should be directing that effort. This article is extremely helpful!

  7. Jennifer Baker

    Great article, Sarah! Men are “seen” less emotional and I find it fantastic you’re able to come up with an interesting piece like this 👌

    • Deanna Hurt

      Hmmm… very interesting!

  8. Jennifer Baker

    Girls, in general, are curious creatures, and guys are the biggest mystery. Thanks for unfolding the mystery 😉

  9. Janice Way

    Thank you! This truly is enlightening. Questions I’ve been wanting to ask my man are answered. This will wipe away my insecurities!

  10. Loretta Alexander

    I can imagine how lucky their partners are. Claiming that they finally found their soulmate is very sweet. I hope my boyfriend thinks of me that way. Lol

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