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How I Fell in Love in Mexico

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It was a warm night, as the ocean breeze gently passed through my hair. My hubby and I were on vacation in Puerto Vallarta, which is an exciting and busy town in Mexico. We were walking down a narrow, cobblestone street in the old part of town, which is filled with galleries, restaurants and shops. We had just seen a memorably funny comedy show performed by a transvestite, and had decided to wander a bit before making our way back to the hotel.

How I Fell in Love in Mexico

It was getting close to midnight when we spotted a small cat on the side of the dark, cobblestone street. She was playing with something; as we got closer we realized that she was gently batting at a giant cockroach (yuk!!). When I got close and started to lean in to pet her, she immediately stood up on her hind legs to press her head into my hand. The poor thing looked like she hadn’t eaten in a week, and had a black tar-like substance in and around her eyes, mouth and nose.

We didn’t want to leave her, as she was clearly hungry and very dirty, so my husband stayed with her while I went in search of cat food. I ran to a convenience store I remembered passing a couple of blocks back, where I tried to explain that I needed cat food by doing a Charades-style impersonation of a cat. Luckily they had some, so I bought a bunch and ran back to them. I ripped open the packet and the food dribbled out onto the sidewalk. The little cat ate it so fast that we gave her a second packet, which she gobbled down just as quickly.

Clearly, we couldn’t just leave her on the side of the road all dirty and starving, so I ran back to the store, bought more food, and tried to explain through gestures alone that I needed a box (not as easy as it sounds). They didn’t have one, so I went from store to restaurant to shop asking for a box. Finally, I got one and we put the kitten in it. She started crying, so we acquiesced and opened it up, expecting her to jump out and run away. But all she did was pop her head out and look at us, purring.

How I Fell in Love in Mexico
She definitely didn’t want to run away – she just wanted to see what was going on! So I picked her up and held her close to me. She didn’t squirm, she just purred and nuzzled under my chin. We walked a block to the beach, where husband filled the box with sand (and almost cut his hand open on a large shard of glass), to use as a litter. Still purring, Shadow nuzzled in closer as we hailed and got in a cab. I fully expected being in a car to scare her, but instead she fell asleep on my lap, purring, despite the fact that the ride was so bumpy and windy that at times I felt like we were in a washing machine!

When we finally made it back to the resort (which had a no-pets rule), we told the cab to stop short of the lobby, and snuck in through a side entrance. Mike went in first and got the elevator; then, when the coast was clear, he waved me over and I ran into the elevator, holding the kitten tightly. Back in our suite, we balled up some paper and she immediately began to play.

When we fed her, we noticed that most of the fur around her mouth had been rubbed off from eating off the concrete and cobblestone. Poor little girl!

How I Fell in Love in Mexico

Shadow putting on the hard sell… and finding ways to immobilize us.

That night she slept in bed with us, purring and nuzzled right under our chins. She was definitely putting on the hard sell! In the morning, we woke up to her purring, still nuzzled between our heads. That’s when we really fell in love. She is such a needy little sweetheart — how could we let her have anything other than a life where she feels safe and loved?

We decided to name her Shadow, because she follows us at our feet wherever we go, and we found her in the shadows.

Once we’d decided that we were definitely going to keep her, we looked up what is required by USA customs to bring her back (which is — get this — absolutely nothing, but some states, like NY, require proof of rabies vaccination), then called the airline to see if it was possible to bring her back with us (it was – we just had to pay the $120 fee and get an airline-size pet carrier).

Despite having already given her two baths, she was still dirty and we could see fleas all over her (although we didn’t get any bites overnight). That, and she still had that black stuff that would not come off around her mouth and eyes. We trapped her in the shower for yet another soapy scrub-down, and then took her to a local vet in Puerto Vallarta to get her a checkup and vaccination papers.

This is all you need to do to bring a cat back with you from another country:

1. Make a quick trip to the vet to get your kitty a rabies shot (it’s also good to test for FIV and feline leukemia because those are catchy to other cats — but not humans) and buy some food and a carrier (usually also sold at the vet office).
2. Call the airline and pay $120 to bring your new family member with you as carry-on.

The vet in Puerto Vallarta turned out to be a woman vet who is known for wrestling crocodiles (I couldn’t make this stuff up!) in order to restrain them and give them medical treatment. She was so happy that we’d decided to take the kitten home. She ran a couple of quick tests, gave a vaccination and a flea treatment, and handed us the certificate we needed to get the kitten back to New York City. The bill for all this came to a whopping $30 (…plus $40 for a carrier). At the clinic, we decided to name her Shadow, because she follows us at our feet wherever we go, and we found her in the shadows.

Later that day we moved to another hotel in the middle of the rain forest in Mexico. My husband had organized a romantic evening for us, that included a secret room preparation and dinner on the roof of the hotel, with a view that went for miles. After our lobster appetizers, my hubby went to the room to check on Shadow. When he didn’t come back after 15 minutes, I went to check what was going on. He was Googling what to do if your cat eats poison! What we hadn’t realized is that the staff (at a “pet-friendly” hotel) would put chocolate brownies in the room. While we were at dinner, little Shadow ate them!! (Chocolate is super poisonous to pets, and can easily kill them).

How I Fell in Love in Mexico

Shadow – still dirty after her fourth bath!

We ended up force feeding her hydrogen peroxide and trying to make her throw up, while at the same time trying to convince the staff to take us to a vet (hopefully before she fully digested her toxic dessert). Luckily, one of the staff had a friend who knew a vet who would come to the nearby town to help us. By this time, we were really scared we’d lose her (I was crying), since time had passed and she hadn’t thrown up.

After what seemed like an hour, one staffer finally agreed to take us to the vet (despite the not-so-kind hotel manager threatening to fire him for it – “it’s just a cat”). We jumped into an Escalade, which immediately started beeping that it was out of gas. With a nearly empty tank of gas, no windshield fluid, coupled with a windshield that was so dirty it was nearly impossible to see out, we sped, at neck-breaking velocity, down windy and bumpy streets.

At about 11:30pm, we pulled up to the vet’s office and jumped out of the massive Escalade. Four nearby cops holding equally massive machine guns immediately bristled and raised their guns. We quickly realized that there was a police station next to the vet’s office and motioned to the cat (“gato, gato!”), as we ran into the vet office. To our relief, the vet, who was kind enough to meet us at his office in the middle of the night, was able to give her the IV and medicine which saved her young life.

As if all that excitement wasn’t enough for one trip, later that night my hubby and I both started getting sick from food poisoning (that lobster!). Our flight was in a few hours and we were pretty much stuck in the bathroom (I’ll spare you the gory details). The hotel was booked up, so we couldn’t stay until we felt better.

On the plane that morning, we both filled our barf bags. I was so sick that I needed to be wheeled off the plane, with a blanket over my head and the cat carrier on my lap. Security didn’t even check the cat’s credentials. On the upside, we got to bypass the lines.

How I Fell in Love in Mexico

Shadow now, healthy and loved

Now, Shadow travels with us whenever we go on vacation via car, and likes to sit on the dashboard and watch the cars go by. She’s a playful and loving little light of our lives. We are now those people who force videos and pictures their cat onto all their friends. Shadow has such a great personality that I’ve actually learned a lot from her about letting the bad stuff roll off (nothing phases her), always being playful (she’ll play with ANYTHING at any time), and being fearless (she’s never ever, ever scared). Our lives are immeasurably improved because Shadow took a chance on us that night — and because we decided to take a chance on her.

A writer, artist and designer since she was young enough to put pencil to paper, Hilary spends most of her time in France, but still considers herself a New Yorker, and visits regularly. Hilary spent the past decade living in NYC and has traveled extensively around the world, looking for hot new topics, destinations, and brands to bring to Urbanette readers.

40 Comments

  1. For one I am not an animal love but what you and your husband did that night is amazing. You saved the life a precious kitten!

    I cried reading this.

    Hope Shadow is doing well!

  2. Dana Rosatti

    You saved a life that night you decided to adopt Shadow, and I’m sure it’s one of the most rewarding experiences in your life.

  3. Rachel Swindon

    Pet Adoption is a life-changing process, and I believe it can either make or break a person — leads to happier or more stressful life. The way I see it, adopting Shadow made your life happier and more fulfilling.

  4. Jen Samson

    Cats are just like people; each one is unique. I have never had two cats alike. The fun and challenge are getting to know them and what they want. I had one who wants to be left alone, and I also had one who loves playing and stay outdoor.

  5. Sarah M.

    I think you found a beautiful and sweet cat because you’re an incredibly nice person! I adopted a 2-year–old blue tortie a couple of weeks ago through a shelter. While I wish I could say it was the best decision I’ve ever made, I’ve regretted it almost every day since then. She does nothing but hide 🙁

    • Sharry Lennon

      You mentioned you adopted a cat from a shelter; I think your cat and Shadow are different because Shadow is a stray cat and longing for affection (probably for a longer time). A cat used to affection may at first be stressed by sudden changes. So just be patient with your adopted one 🙂

      • Agreed. Patience is key if the kitty is scared. My parents have tamed many feral cats that were terrified of them for months, but now they are HYPER affectionate! Google about how to tame a cat, and she’ll come around 😉

  6. Melinda Hart

    From a homeless cat, Shadow became a spoiled one! Nice story!

  7. Grace Hart Tomlison

    Your story reminded me of an excellent book I read; it’s entitled The Cat that God Sent written by Jim Kraus. It’s about a new preacher and his cat who helped lots of people.

    Indeed cats are helpful! Worth adopting and providing shelter for them!

  8. Aylin Sanli

    Your story moves me! Thanks for sharing! Cats are great stress-relievers and I own three 🙂

  9. Chanelle Lewis

    I wonder how many cats do you have now? Did you think about adopting a new one? Shadow is fortunate to have you!

    • We did! We adopted another one to be a playmate with Shadow. They spend all day cuddling, licking each other’s faces, play wrestling, and chasing each other around the apartment. Adorable!

  10. Jodie Carpenter

    What a touching story! I love my cats ’cause they make great alarm clocks. LOL Thy wake me up on time AND at the same time every morning!

  11. Merry Robinson

    What a sweet soul you are. This touched me so deeply! by adopting a cat today, anyone could be single-handedly saving a life.

  12. Alice Harris

    Adopting a cat is also a wonderful way to support your local animal shelter. 🙂

  13. Christina Brown

    I hugged my cat when i read this. My aunt gave him to me out of desperation (long story) and at first I didn’t want the cat, not really a cat person. But she’s the sweetest gal i know. She’s always happy to see me, outgoing and cheerful. Her name is eevee (yes, from the pokemon) and she is my angel. <3

  14. I’m keen to help cats in need, but I honestly can’t commit to adopting one. Do you have suggestions on how I can extend my help?

    • Definitely! You can ask a shelter about “fostering” cats. That means you give them a temporary home until they get adopted. It’s a big help for shelters because they can take in more cat that way. 🙂

  15. Mari Henderson

    Cat (or pet adoption for that matter) is a HUGE responsibility. I think it’s a decision that can’t be taken lightly. I’m amazed you were able to make your decision at that very moment you met Shadow.

    • Kimberly Thompson

      I agree, Hilary is one of a kind! To think she travels a lot (I believe that it’s hard to be a pet owner if you travel more or have a busy schedule).

      • We bring our cats with us on our travels, most of the time. They love it!

  16. Ariana Rhyder

    Is cat adoption costly?!

  17. Evelyn Sandler

    Love the photos! Now I’m motivated to adopt a cat. Any advice or suggestion on the adoption process? What organization or animal shelter should I contact?

    • Jennifer McSween

      I know where you’re coming from. Hilary just inspired me to adopt one too. But her success story of unexpectedly finding Shadow is “one in a million.”

  18. Franny Pimms

    You (and Hubby) and Shadow found an unconditional love! Thanks for writing about it!

  19. Camila Hilhorst

    Your story is encouraging! I’m willing to adopt a cat when I’m in my country. But I would think twice or even thrice if I’m on vacation on another country (like what you did).

  20. Christina Norelli

    I own three male cats and a personal observation: they will hold up their tails in greeting when they first see me. They don’t do this when they’re just after food. It’s fun to learn their language 😉

    • Yeah! A raised tail means they’re feeling friendly and want love or playtime. 🙂

  21. Anouska Leigh

    I’ve read somewhere that according to research, “cats only make direct eye contact with people they really like.” I wonder if Shadow made a direct eye contact with you that night…

    • Angelika J. Huntington

      A similar read, “A long slow blink is a cat equivalent of a kiss.” I’m not a cat owner; I’m not sure if there’s truth in this…

  22. Emma Blackwood

    Oh wow! I will do the same if I encounter a “homeless” cat. I always believe cats are good companions!

  23. Delilah Montero

    Thank you for sharing your story! Finding Shadow is more than enough reason to have a memorable trip…

  24. Gregor Perry

    So nice of you! Scientific research shows that cats serve as social support during difficult times. You showed Shadow love and concern; I’m pretty sure you’ll receive the same when needed 😉

    • Yes, our kitties have made life a lot more comforting during many hard times…

  25. What a story! Shadow is one lucky cat 🙂

  26. Guy, I Cried and I Laughed … And did it Again and Again … Thanks for loving Cat(s) and for HELPING Them … Amazing STORY and Amazing PICS!

  27. Shadow is incredibly lucky that she ran into you guys on vacation 🙂 I have a cat too that I adopted so it’s nice to provide them with the love they need. Loved reading this story!

    • It’s always good to have multiple pets, so they can play with each other when you’re not around, or not in the mood to play. It’s actually no more work to have two or three versus one. Really!

  28. Oh wow – that’s the cutest story I’ve ever read! I had no idea it was so easy (well, sort of!!) to bring an animal back from another country. I’ll think twice about it the next time I see a stray cat or dog while on vacation. Thanks for opening my eyes!

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