Your One-A-Month Sex Bucket List
20 creative things to do every month to spice up your sex life.
Bucket List: #11. Play with Your Food
Bring a selection of enticing foods into the bedroom. Chocolate sauce, whipped cream, and strawberries all make for sensual additions to a romp. Drizzle or place them on various body parts and lick or nibble them off. When your sweet tooth is satisfied, your sexual appetite will be reaching fever pitch.
Bucket List: #12. Use Ice Cubes
Another great way to stimulate your partner’s senses is to hold an ice cube between your lips and run it gently all over his body. Start with his lips, and then move to his neck, ears, shoulders, chest, nipples, arms, stomach, and legs. Make your way to his genital area and gently run the ice cube over it—paying special attention to sensitive parts like the head of his penis—until he begs for mercy.
Bucket List: #13. Pretend to Be Strangers
Plan to meet up at a bar or restaurant and pretend it’s your very first encounter. Dress nicely and put some effort into your appearance like you would on a real first date. When you get there, start by asking each other questions about things you haven’t discussed in ages to warm up, such as the best places you’ve traveled or your favorite bands. As the evening progresses, move on to sexy talk. Tell your partner how hot he is and describe what you want to do to him later—the more detail the better—until you’re so riled up you both scream, “Check, please!”
Bucket List: #14. Role-Play
This can seem contrived and intimidating, but you don’t have to get into full schoolgirl/teacher costumes—unless you want to. Role-playing can be as simple as taking on different characters and acting them out to create an exciting new dynamic. This will often result in a domination scenario in which one of you submits to the other’s will, but it can also be as simple as two strangers meeting in the night and having mind-blowing, illicit sex. If you do want to try out some costumes, you can get them at a sex shop or online.
Bucket List: #15. Send Provocative Sexts
Build anticipation by sending your partner sexy text messages throughout the day. Tease him with details of a sexy new outfit you plan to debut for his eyes only that night—you can even send him a suggestive photo. As the day progresses, tell him in more detail what you plan to do to please him. By quitting time, he’ll be racing out the door to get home to you.