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Obsessed With Thin

Can you recognize the illusion?


These days, it seems as though not only during the summer months, but year-round, the newsstands are displaying magazines of which almost every issue has a thin, beautifully airbrushed swimsuit model on its cover. Your television is showing a growing number of these unhealthily thin actresses. Bones are jutting out and implants are taking the place of real breasts. Most of these supermodels and actresses are so unnaturally thin that they risk infertility, osteoporosis, and ultimately, kidney damage.

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Jennifer Aniston’s former trainer says “[Jennifer’s] new figure did not come from working out with me. She lost body fat (seemingly all of it) by drastically reducing carbs in her diet – a way that’s not healthy in my books.”

“The media creates this wonderful illusion-but the amount of airbrushing that goes into those beauty magazines, the hours of hair and makeup! It’s impossible to live up to, because it’s not real.”- Jennifer Aniston in Vanity Fair

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This obsession with thinness seems to be a sort of domino effect. One actress looses weight to please the media; next all her co-stars are loosing weight to keep up. Actress Courtney Thorne-Smith (size 4) has said that if she had not been on the [now-defunct] TV show Ally McBeal, she’d have been 5 pounds heavier–but couldn’t risk it for fear she’d have looked ‘big’ next to her size 2 co-stars.

“I would run eight miles, go to lunch and order my salad dressing on the side. I was always tired and hungry.” says Courtney. Meanwhile, her famously thin co-star at the time, Calista Flockhart, preached the benefits of spinning (vigorous workouts on stationary bikes). “At first it hurts your butt, but you become addicted to it like a maniac.” says Calista, who, incidentally, is size 2, 5’6″, and 100 lbs.

Obsessed With ThinDoes anyone ever think about how the overload of these images in the media affects the average woman? Well, for most women it doesn’t exactly have a positive effect. In fact, the idea of the media’s (and consequently, everybody else’s) “ideal” woman often makes “normal” women self-conscious — even if they have nothing to be self-conscious about.

There is a definite impact these Hollywood role models have on younger viewers. For most teenagers, the ideal person they want to be is a famous model or actress – and the emphasis is very much on external appearance. Perhaps this is part of the reason that so many teenagers today are unhappy with their appearance and are often on a diet.

Judging from what I’ve seen at the beach, not many men feel the same way. This bad self-image and shyness that many women feel, in most cases, can be directly linked to what they see in fashion magazines, on the runway, and in other forms of the media.

What most women and men don’t realize is that every image of a model or actress in a fashion or beauty magazine (or catalog) has been touched-up using the latest computer technology to remove bulges, pimples, stretch marks, etc. Elizabeth Hurley even admitted that her breasts were electronically enlarged for the cover of Cosmopolitan magazine.

“On my last Cosmo cover,” she explains, “they added about five inches to my breasts. It’s very funny. I have, like, massive knockers. Huge. Absolutely massive.” – Elizabeth Hurley in Details magazine

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Christy Turlington explains to Elle magazine… “Advertising is so manipulative,” she says. “There’s not one picture in magazines today that’s not airbrushed.”

“It’s funny,” Turlington continues. “When women see pictures of models in fashion magazines and say, ‘I can never look like that,’ what they don’t realize is that no one can look that good without the help of a computer.”

Beyond that, there are about 100-300 professional photographs taken for each published image you see. They are taken from the absolute best angle in perfect lighting with the clothes pinned just so. And as if that wasn’t enough, the models hair and makeup is always professionally done and is constantly touched up by a makeup artist and hair stylist standing by to make sure nothing looks less-than-perfect.

“I think women see me on the cover of magazines and think that I never have a pimple or bags under my eyes. You have to realize that’s after two hours of hair and makeup, plus retouching. Even I don’t wake up looking like Cindy Crawford.” – Cindy Crawford

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Obsessed With ThinAccording to Prevention magazine, a “healthy weight” for a woman who is 5’9″ is 129-169 pounds. An average 5’9″ model’s weight is somewhere around 105-115 lbs. Cindy Crawford is an example of an exception to the rule: she is a model (although it’s not very often that you see her–or anyone her size–anymore), and yet she’s not stick-thin. Cindy Crawford has lots of muscle–and it looks good. She is the kind of woman more magazines need to have on their covers and in their editorials. She projects strength and beauty.

“I am not the skinniest model,” says Cindy. “But I have had success as a model, so I feel more confident putting on a bathing suit and standing in front of a camera. In life, I have all the insecurities anyone has. It’s a cliché, but we’re our own worst critics.” ~

“I finally realized that I don’t have to have an A-plus perfect body, and now I’m happy with the way I am.” – Drew Barrymore

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A recent survey commissioned by a British magazine found that:

  • 79% of the two thousand women surveyed thought that their social lives would improve if they were thinner.
  • 83% thought that overweight celebrities led unhappy lives.
  • 70% believed that overweight people were generally seen as less intelligent and less attractive.
  • 88% of girls feel the need to “look perfect”.
  • 60% say their appearance is their biggest concern in life.

Recent statistics provided by Natural Health magazine found that:

  • 44% of women who are average or underweight think that they are overweight.
  • The average woman’s dress size is 12 and the average mannequin’s dress size is 6.
  • The average height and weight for women age 18 to 74 years old: 5’4″, 138 lbs.

In a survey conducted by Better Health Channel, they found:

  • Normal weight men and women – 45 per cent of women and 23 per cent of men in the healthy weight range think they are overweight.
  • Underweight women – at least 20 per cent of women who are underweight think that they are overweight and are dieting to lose weight.

According to a recent Prevention/NBC Survey,

  • 60% of women have dieted or are on a diet,
  • 44% of women refuse to be photographed in a swimsuit,
  • and 37% of women won’t play beach games while wearing swimsuits.

There are over one million anorexic women in the UK alone.

Please note: The models shown are to demonstrate the trend in stick-thin models. We in no way endorse the use of emaciated models and feel that it is much better to use more natural looking women in fashion and magazines.


A writer, artist and designer since she was young enough to put pencil to paper, Hilary spends most of her time in France, but still considers herself a New Yorker, and visits regularly. Hilary spent the past decade living in NYC and has traveled extensively around the world, looking for hot new topics, destinations, and brands to bring to Urbanette readers.


  1. Kudos to the companies who are now saying that they are willing to cast “regular” size models into their marketing campaign. At first this brings a round of applause from woman everywhere, who feel they will finally be recognized curves and all. But as you glance at these new advertisements, you wonder who determines “regular” size and further than that, why do these women still seem flawless? Lets make something clear, there is nothing “regular” about this new segment of the modeling world. While they may not be a waif, like the famed Kate Moss, they certainly are not bigger than a size zero or shorter in stature than Wataru Misaka from the Knicks (by the way he is 5 foot 7 inches). Along with that in a world where there are over 2198 photo editing apps in the Apple store, we are well aware that these models are air-brushed and enhanced prior to hitting the magazine stands. So while the concept of using the “regular” sized models sounds empowering, we still have a long way to go till reality meets the eye.

  2. You are very right! Photoshop does wonders! But I would admit that I'm personally affected with what I see in magazines (and in my photos) and strive to maintain thin body.

  3. Courtney Watson

    Personally, I’ve observed that most women think “being thin” is a MUST and that to be “in” you have to be “thin!”

  4. I really hate to think that my daughters are going to grow up having these body image issues, but it seems inevitable. I’ll definitely print this article and save it for them. The best thing I can do for them is make them aware. Thanks, Urbanette.

  5. Joanne Samonte

    I personally think that we should not blame it all on the media. We can also blame ourselves for being influenced by media! We all have a choice and we should make the right one!

  6. Paula Lowe

    We live in a society that people completely misunderstand the meaning of healthy living/healthy being. How many times I heard people talking about the Victoria’s Secrets’ fashion shows and thinking how they need to start dieting to look like them? I’ve lost track of the numerous comments on how women want to be like that actress, or singer; have you notice how many people worship Beyonce and want to be like her? Don’t get me wrong – I admire a lot of artists that can inspire someone else in some way, but the whole aesthetic aspect of it shouldn’t be a goal. We need to accept our body and our beauty, because we are real and we look real: magazines, ads, video clips are just a lot of skilled people and photo editing programs combined to create a perfect picture. We all know perfect doesn’t exist.

  7. Hannah Mayers

    Lately, I have observed that women are obsessed with “yoga, exercise, healthy eating, ‘diet’..” and others of some sort. I can’t help but wonder, are they aiming for a healthy lifestyle or do they just want to be thin?

    Media has really gone too far. It is really influencing us, supposedly for the better, but it is causing influence in a negative way 🙁

  8. Sandra Brown

    I love being thin but that doesn’t mean I’m obsessed with being thin. Though admittedly, I sometimes do crazy things just to achieve my desired weight.

    I totally agree that media had somehow gone too far, most young ladies aspire to be perfect, to achieve a perfect weight, but there’s no such thing as “perfect weight” it’s just what the media wants us to believe… and unfortunately, media’s winning in portraying a “wrong” belief.

  9. Jen Garcia

    Thin is good, but too thin? I think that just looks bad. I am happy with the way I look and I work hard to maintain my weight. I couldn’t see myself becoming so thin. What can we do to change society’s views and make them understand that all women should be happy in their own skin?

    We really need women empowerment…

  10. Jen Spillane

    I think the most efficient way to change this trend is visually because that's how the trend itself is happening. What I mean is: we're constantly SEEING women who are overly thin, as opposed to reading about them or listening to people talk about them. It's a visual thing, so it seems like the best way to fight back is to also use visuals. In this article, for example, which is full of statistics that should make me feel like my body (and body image) is more normal than I might think, what was most striking and memorable was the one picture of average sized women on the beach. This is what made me think, okay, reality check: I'm not overweight, and there's other women in the world who look like me, and who feel confident about it. Seeing that picture made me feel excellent and empowered. I would like to see more of that in the media because that would be fighting the enemy (not to be too dramatic ; ), on level turf.

  11. The mass of admiration that we heap onto celebrities and models for their physical appearances only perpetuates the idea that beauty determines a person's worth. These photographs never reflect the actuality, that's for sure, but their glorification of appearance above all else is more concerning. What if celebrities encouraged people to trim bad habits instead of fat and preached self-improvement instead of dieting plans?

  12. I love to be thin, because then I can enjoy in chocolate without worries 🙂 but I am not obsessed ( hope so ) 🙂 “When women see pictures of models in fashion magazines and say, ‘I can never look like that,’. I do not tell that, I tell SHE HAS GREAT PHOTOSHOP AND I HAVE GOOD MAKEUP, THAT IS ALL 🙂

  13. Mick Hamilton

    I think there should be high school classes that teach this.

    Women, especially young girls, should be empowered.

  14. Rebecca Givens

    It's true that we're our own worst critics, and the retouching in magazines doesn't help. The idealized beauty is truly unattainable, but unfortunately not many women realize that yet. There are many body types out there and magazines idolize only one or two.

  15. So true – there's sooo much pressure to fit the mold. Glad to know people are talking about this issue and becoming more self-aware and media-aware.

  16. As a model, I definitely notice the pressure not only I feel, but that my friends are constantly commenting that they feel. I'll make sure to forward this article to them.

  17. Natalie Esguerra

    I wish I’d known this when I was a teenager. It would have helped me a lot!

  18. It doesn’t help that glossy magazines photoshop their models waaay too much that it’s too far from reality!

  19. This article speaks the truth and nothing but the truth. Sometimes, when my friends talk about their weight, discuss how many pounds they wanna lose and why they have cellulite, I try to detach myself from the conversation.  Cause I know it’s the starting point for insecurity. And I don’t wanna have that in my life. I

     wanna live, NORMALLY. Not this MAGAZINE-FANTASY of being a woman. 🙂

  20. I completely agree that beauty is from the inside out, not only outside! I think so many people are hooked on being thin that we have the wrong idea of what beauty is. Being original and ourselves is the most beautiful thing in the world, not trying to be a cookie cutter image of every other model or actress out there. 

  21. Jen Garcia

    Anorexia is not the way forward, everyone is beautiful in their own shape and form.

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