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How to Love the Ocean

The ocean is very sick. Why you should care, and what you can do to help.


In the midst of what was an otherwise self-absorbed and indulgent vacation, I was confronted with realities that commanded awareness and a sense of personal responsibility. I was sailing with friends in the Andaman Sea. Surrounded by scenery so dreamlike that even my imagination couldn’t compete with, I questioned if we had been CGI-ed into the set of movie Avatar. Friends who have looked through my photographs claim my photos “can’t be real”, or that they “look like a postcard”. But what my friends didn’t see (as a result of my careful omission) was the vast amount of trash dotting the shores and floating in the water so prevalent among some of the most beautiful landscapes on earth.

How to Love the Ocean

The ocean has given so much to me in my lifetime. It hurt me to no end to see such rampant pollution. Dozens of miles from shore, on remote and uninhabited islands, plastic bottles, mountains of disposable containers and countless remains of now indistinguishable styrofoam something’s covered the coastline. The evidence of such neglect and indifference was painful to process. Regardless of your stance on climate change, and even if you think humans have no influence on the environment, how could one have such blatant disregard for such profound beauty.

How to Love the Ocean

On the dock at the Marina, I had struck up a single serving friendship with a local. I inquired about renting some fishing poles but my new friend discouraged me from doing so. When I asked why, he simply replied “there are no fish in this part of the sea anymore”. By the time we got to the more touristy islands like Koh Pi Pi, I was nauseated and ashamed of us. Outdoor bars right on the sand where people discard cigarettes and beer bottles directly into the bay. This island was the filming location for the movie The Beach. For as far as I could see in every direction, there were American and Euro trash tourists behaving as if they had deep contempt for the same gorgeous scenery they had traveled thousands of miles to visit. It was an all-out assault on nature.

How to Love the Ocean

During recent sailing adventures in Latin America, I have made similar observations. I have also heard firsthand accounts from other sailors’ of enormous trash islands they have passed floating in the middle of the Pacific. This isn’t the result of Tsunamis, and my personal experience confirms the problem isn’t isolated to specific regions. This is happening all over the world.

I was disturbed to the point where I needed to participate in some small way. I don’t have children, but many of my close friends do. I am also not Al Gore and many people that know me may be surprised or classify what I have shared here as uncharacteristic given the altruistic nature of my message. To be really direct, I wasn’t motivated to help for the purpose of leaving a cleaner planet for future generations. My relationship with ocean deserves reciprocity. I owe a debt, and a precious resource, my inspiration is in danger.  Regardless of how insignificant my contribution may be, I just needed to start somewhere, do something.

How to Love the Ocean

I began modifying my use of resources on a daily basis immediately. Plastic garbage bags were replaced by stylish reusable totes when I went grocery shopping. Recycling trips became a top priority because I started diligently separating my trash each week. Reusable stainless steel water bottles limited the number of plastics in my possession. Organic and anti-chemical cleaning products became a healthier option for my home maintenance.

Organizations such as Clean Ocean Action and Surfrider Foundation allowed me to research about ocean life and connect with others who were passionate about keeping the ocean healthy. While adapting to a more eco-friendly lifestyle, I inspired my family, friends, and readers to do the same. These lifestyle changes are the foundations for better treatment of our oceans. If all of us contributed our eco-friendly efforts, the ocean would be in a better condition for the future.

How to Love the Ocean

Sometimes the smallest acts of giving can still have a large impact on a cause. Humanity isn’t just a single entity detached from nature. It’s our responsibility to be one with nature and not abuse what it provides. By caring for our oceans, we create a priceless exchange. Limiting our ocean pollution brings us clean water and air for generations. Whenever you are at the beach or on a yacht, take a moment to meditate on how nice the ocean feels not only to you, but to all creatures living in it. Now, that’s something worth protecting.

Parker is a serial entrepreneur and founder of Techovia, a business consulting agency. He grew up in the Hamptons and now lives in San Diego.

Reader Discussion: 53 Comments

  1. EVA

    I partly blame science for the pollution. Developing new products for human convenience BUT not inventing how to dispose of it properly. Now we are left with a pile of plastic and we can’t even recycle it because it costs more than producing it. sucks right?

  2. Nadine Clinton

    total bummer when a beach is littered with plastic garbage. it’s so fucking disgusting to see the sea as filthy as a babies diaper. let’s all pitch in on saving the planet! stop using plastic damn it!

  3. Francis Lockwood

    Let’s help our ocean last longer. Plastics that end up as ocean debris contribute to habitat destruction and entangle and kill tens of thousands of marine animals each year. To limit our impact, we can carry a reusable water bottle, store food in nondisposable containers, bring our own cloth tote or other reusable bags when shopping, and recycle whenever possible.

  4. Pepa Washington

    I love the ocean because it reminds me of how small my “world” can be and how tides come and go without hesitation. When I’m able to walk or run on a beach beside the ocean I can’t help but clear my head and step outside the box and that’s proven to be a rewarding experience in so many ways. It’s amazing the number of times that a new commitment to work, health, family or quality spring from my trips to the ocean.

  5. There is nothing like sitting at a beach, hearing the ocean waves and just taking a deep breath. The smell of the ocean in itself has this calming effect on me. Mix that with the sound of the waves crashing onto the sand and you’ve got the perfect recipe for peace and serenity. Caring is loving. Raise awareness now!

  6. Kimberly Shaw

    The ocean waves soothe my soul. Walking on the beach barefoot is amazing. If I walk far enough I can find peace and solitude. I always play in the waves, chase seagulls, and meet cool people and/or dogs. I feel and see the power and beauty of nature. So please, let’s save our ocean now.

  7. Whether you live on the coast or far from it, whether you eat seafood or not, you and the future of all those you love depends on healthy oceans.

  8. Andrea Clark

    I protect the oceans by writing about them. Well, it’s not that I do not do things on my own like refraining use of plastics, but I think keeping people informed can help a lot in preserving the oceans and the Earth in general…

    • Chris Heinemeier

      Writing about the oceans is a perfect way to help protect, conserve and preserve the Earth. Unlike before, our oceans are under stress. Climate change and phenomena like El Niño, activities like overfishing, pollution, industrial and shipping are endangering the ocean and lives on it.

      • Brenda Stow

        You’re right! It’s important to be informed. Reading on the Internet and newspapers, I’m terrified to learn and discover flood myth of every culture and country…

  9. Deanna Woods

    I really hope someone comes up with a clever way to get rid of all that trash!

    • kristina kent

      that “SOMEONE” can be you. stay woke! speak up and set as an example. little movements can become huge waves. it all needs a single step for it to move. #greenpeace #motherearth #staywoke

    • Angela Freeman

      We DON’T NEED SOMEONE because WE SHOULD BE ONE in working or finding ways to get rid of all the trash. Just by NOT contributing to ocean pollution can make a HUGE difference.

  10. Eloise Ferris

    I wish people would be more careful and considerate in general, but especially when it comes to our water.

    • Susan Phemister

      An obvious manifestation of loving the oceans that I think the author missed is going vegan!!! This practice definitely preserves life on the waters!

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