Relationship Advice: 5 Love-Saving Tips

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Project Romance: 5 Secrets to Having It All

These 5 love-saving tips will light up your romance and help you find more balance.

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Give Back to Others

Studies show that people who volunteer to help others are healthier and less stressed. Combine these benefits with quality couple time by planning a date to volunteer together. Shovel an elderly neighbor’s sidewalk. Walk dogs at a local animal shelter. Pass out flowers to strangers on a busy street corner. The cheer you share with others will inspire you and may even ignite a new admiration for your spouse.

Project Romance: 5 Secrets to Having It All

Sweat Together

According to the Mayo Clinic, exercise boosts energy and improves mood. Want a little extra motivation to get moving? Nab your spouse as your new biking buddy. You will both be invested in the results, plus conquering a new health goal will strengthen your bond and provide something concrete to brag about your spouse at his next work party.

Project Romance: 5 Secrets to Having It All

Turn off Work

Turn off your work, literally. Establish a specific space and business hours for yourself with a clear start and end. After 6pm, for example, shutdown your computer and leave your home office regardless of the email barrage filling your inbox. Shut the door and start the home part of your day. Set your phone to notify you of new messages only from your personal accounts. After the kids are in bed, shut down all electronic devices and just talk with your spouse for 30 minutes. Catch up on work news. Compare calendars and get on the same page about your upcoming obligations. Dream about your next vacation. Read the newspaper together. This daily, focused time together doesn’t take much work and it will have huge payoffs in the long run.

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A writer, artist and designer since she was young enough to put pencil to paper, Hilary spends most of her time in France, but still considers herself a New Yorker, and visits regularly. Hilary spent the past decade living in NYC and has traveled extensively around the world, looking for hot new topics, destinations, and brands to bring to Urbanette readers.

Reader Discussion: 80 Comments

  1. Carmen Griffin

    This is what I need to read! I’m experiencing emotional stress at the moment *sigh*

  2. Della Martin

    I’d like to add: develop small and consistent habits with your partner 😉

  3. Agree with making time for small luxuries 👍👌

  4. Elizabeth Gonzalez

    Very helpful! Sometimes it’s hard to maintain connection amid intense schedules!

  5. Connie Schmidt

    I couldn’t agree less with everything you’ve written here. Thanks so much!

  6. Esther Devine

    Yeah, it’s hard to handle multiple desires — career success and relationships!

  7. Jurik

    Time management is an important element 😊💖

  8. Brittany West

    When I’m with my special someone, I make sure work doesn’t distract my attention.

  9. Deanna Woods

    Thanks for the tips. I most of the time struggle juggling career, ambition and relationship…

  10. Genie Mackenzie

    Boyfriend and I make it a habit to schedule a date night every Thursday (and it CAN’T BE RESCHEDULED). This way, we find quality time together to look forward to…

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