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Thinking About Cheating? 12 Reasons Why You Should

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Thinking About Cheating? 12 Reasons Why You Should

So why is cheating bad, even if your sweetie doesn’t find out? Humiliation of the one cheated on, increased health risks, decreased emotional intimacy, emotional devastation and mental frustration are all convincing points why cheating is bad.

Persuading yourself to ignore the obvious can only lead to pain and regret. If selfishness is the road chosen despite this persuasive narrative, my advice is to remember that there’s value in integrity, and people who matter have a funny way of sensing who’s got it and who doesn’t.

As you may have learned from TV and movies – the bad guys always get caught!

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Born and raised in Texas, Shelly is currently studying to receive her Master's Degree in Publishing at the University of Houston - Victoria.  Shelly is a writer for Urbanette Magazine, and loves "everything it is and all that it offers our readers, and to me personally". She is passionate about life, family, friends, her maltipoo, Truman. She is a lover of all things culinary and the arts (13 year veteran of ballet).

Reader Discussion: 135 Comments

  1. Caring Husband

    I’m alright with it really. This seems like a bit of a circle jerk so you can all try to preemptively prevent men cheating on you. If it makes you feel better, so be it.

  2. Jannie Zoot

    A friend of mine just can’t stop cheating. She broke up with a guy, found a new one and fell crazy in love and then cheated on him twice. I know she’s very unconfident and insecure but geez! That’s not a solution, is it?

  3. Selli Coaze

    Being in a relationship is a “daily choice” and everyday, I choose to be faithful with my partner.

    • Jonathan Freeman

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  4. Hena Taylor

    Cheating can be avoided if open communication will be observed by partners.

  5. Jessi Agusta

    In my opinion, men cheat more often than women because of culture. If society condones infidelity as a value, we may no longer see cheating as a negative behavior.

  6. Lana Urie

    I have never cheated, but been cheated on before. It took me long to recover from it, and to regain my trust in men. I couldn’t get in to a new relationship for 3 years. Now I’m happily married to the nicest man I’ve ever known, and I hope that he won’t fail my trust.

  7. Roberta Bennett

    Cheating is the lowest form of betrayal.

  8. Gwen Keaton

    What bothers me the most is that people still get in relationships when they know they can’t stay faithful. Why do they that? Do they actually start relationships thinking they’ll be faithful during the relationship, or do they know that they’ll mess up and go on cheating as they wish?

    • Irene Morales

      I don’t think anybody would get in a relationship thinking of or planing to cheat.

  9. Leslie Williams

    Faithfulness is the key. 🙂

    • Jae Medina

      The key to an honest and happy life! I wish men could see that too.

  10. Loraine Aguilar

    Cheating is disgusting and very hurtful! Too bad these days loyalty is very hard to find, and almost everyone is capable of cheating. What a sad world we live in. 🙁

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