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Why Women Marry Late

Where and how does marriage fit in with our end goals?


“Life Begins At 30″

Why Women Marry Late

In the popular HBO series “Sex and the City,” the main characters were in their mid-30s to early-40s, all single and making the life of the solo-flighter the most fashionable thing next to the color black. As the series closed, however, the ideals of marriage and partnership resurfaced, with Carrie Bradshaw finally getting the fairytale wedding she had been wanting deep inside all along. Which leads us to the question: after all the “You go girl!” attitude thrown about, where and how does marriage fit in with our end goals?

Women are entering a new age, and the definition of what it means to be a women is constantly evolving. Education and career are top priorities for many a modern women, and many feel that they are too “busy”, or preoccupied with their life goals, to start a family. And why not? Many women feel that living a life full of travel, adventure, and career advancement is more fulfilling and fun — and less stressful — than a traditional lifestyle.

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Reader Discussion: 92 Comments

  1. Melissa Princeton

    The main reason why I don’t want to get married is children! I don’t want any. But the men I met that I would consider marrying all want children. What is my luck?!

    • Keep looking, and ask that question upfront. I’ve met men who don’t want kids. I’m sure you will too!

  2. Catherine Francis Meyers

    After witnessing 3 failed marriages of my mother, I am terrified to even consider marriage.

    • Remember: Just because hers failed doesn’t mean yours will! I know it’s scary, but if you are a good match for each other, it can be very life-enriching. I’ve learned this by looking at Hilary’s marriage. She and her husband help each other and are even better because of their partnership. They give me something to look forward to!

  3. Sure, it’s best to wait until you’re at an age you’re matured enough to take the serious commitment of marriage. But it’s also as important to do it with the right man. Just because your biologic clock is ticking you shouldn’t rush things with a man who you’re not sure of.

    • I totally agree! Otherwise, you’ll end up miserable and/or divorced before you know it!

  4. Camila Hilhorst

    I really couldn’t care less who married who at what age and how long their marriage lasted. If you meet the right person it will last. That’s all I know. And I hope I find the right person one day, doesn’t matter what age.

  5. I believe marriage isn’t unnecessary but it’s important to have a special someone in your life. Nobody wants to be lonely.

    • Right but just because you don’t wannabe lonely it doesn’t mean you should hop on board with the first man that comes along.

  6. Monica Collins

    We should all be glad we’re not in ’50s anymore. Back then women didn’t have half the freedom we now have in marriages. The housewife life is so not for me!

  7. Leah Helms

    Life does begin at your 30’s. Until my 30’s I was insecure, immature, emotionally and financially unstable girl who was attracted to all the wrong kind of guys. Now I’m more mature and confident, financially stable and most important I know what I want!

  8. What marriage? I feel lucky if I get a date twice a month haha ??

  9. Nicky Bryan

    The only reason why I want to get married is that I want to wear a beautiful wedding gown, and I want to have a dreamy fairytale wedding. But that can wait. šŸ˜‰

  10. Kimberly Thompson

    Oh my… ? Reading the comments made me feel like we’re a “No To Marriage Club” haha But seriously, I think marriage is nothing but unnecessary paperwork. People can start and be a family without those papers.

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