La lista de deseos de los 30 antes de los 30

Sin ningún orden en particular, he elaborado una lista de treinta cosas que todo el mundo debería probar antes de cumplir los treinta (¡o cualquier edad, en realidad!). Algunas de las cosas enumeradas son cosas de las que soy culpable y otras están en mi lista de cosas. perseguir: es importante experimentar todos ellos al menos una vez en la vida antes de casarse.

1.  Disfruta de una aventura de una noche

Pase una noche merodeando sabiendo que el mundo es su ostra y que las ostras son un afrodisíaco que no necesitará esta noche. Siente el poder de saber que, como mujer en una misión, tienes el control al 100% y es prácticamente una garantía de que tendrás suerte. Así que ponle goma y disfruta de tu tiempo con un tipo atractivo que acabas de conocer.

Trae una novia y asegúrate de que sepa el nombre y la dirección del lugar al que vas y con quién irás. Silencia la voz dentro de ti que se pregunta si él es apto para una relación o se pregunta si notó tu celulitis. Nunca volverás a verlo (¡a propósito!), así que no importa. ¡Solo ten cuidado y no permitas que se convierta en un hábito frecuente!

2. Mudarse a otro país

Si está interesado en empezar de nuevo, encuentre una manera de hacer posible la mudanza, aunque sea por unos meses. Obtendrá una perspectiva completamente nueva de la vida y de cómo funciona el mundo. Te obligará a salir de tu caparazón y te dará la confianza de saber que, pase lo que pase, siempre hay opciones y aventuras esperándote.

3.   Viajar el Mundo

Hoy en día hay tantas formas de viajar barato que no hay excusa para no hacerlo. viajar el mundo tanto como puedas. empiece por Realizar viajes por carretera con amigos de la universidad. O viaja solo a diferentes ciudades donde podrás volver a conectarte con viejos amigos y familiares. Por lo general, viajar se vuelve más difícil a medida que uno envejece, por lo que ahora es el momento de aprovechar esta libertad.

4. Enfrenta Tu Miedo

Todavía tengo fobia a las alturas, pero eso no significa que no haya experimentado estar colgado de una tirolesa muy larga y alta. Aguanta y enfrenta tu miedo; A nadie le importa si estarás gritando hasta el cansancio en el proceso. Hazlo. Márcalo de tu lista de deseos. Comparte el vídeo.

5. Lleva a tus padres a cenar

Invitar a tus padres a cenar no es nada cursi. Más bien, es algo que deberías haber hecho hace mucho tiempo.

Haga las paces reconociendo el hecho de que ellos también son personas imperfectas y que solo están cuidando de usted. Es posible que hayan hecho cosas locas e irrazonables, pero lo hicieron por tu bienestar a pesar de que no aprobabas exactamente sus medios. Se merecen esta cena más de lo que jamás imaginarás.

6. Vuélvete loco en Las Vegas

Si quieres saber cómo se siente estar en la película 'The Hangover', entonces conduce o compra tus boletos para Las Vegas. Ve a pasar un fin de semana con algunos de tus amigos (porque más tiempo Las Vegas deja de ser divertida). Fiesta. Volverse loco. Ríete a carcajadas. En Las Vegas puedes hacer todo tipo de cosas sin que te juzguen.

7.  Tomar una Clase

¡Invierte en ti mismo, pero diviértete! Toma lecciones de baile, aprende sobre fotografía o inscríbete en una clase de arte si lo deseas. Es posible que descubras un nuevo lado de ti mismo en el proceso.

8. Consiga un Trabajo Y luego Renuncie

Tu título universitario está ahí para apoyarte por el resto de tu vida. Pero antes de conseguir el trabajo de tus sueños, también puedes divertirte un poco. No dudes que terminarás realizando una serie de trabajos que apestan. Si estás atrapado en un trabajo infernal, no seas complaciente. Comience a enviar su currículum lo antes posible y concéntrese en lo bien que se sentirá cuando pueda decirle a su jefe '¡Renuncio!'

9.  Se Inpredecible

La aleatoriedad no debe darse por sentada, especialmente para alguien que es muy joven. Disfruta el paseo de la vergüenza "Paso de orgullo" o entrar a un restaurante a las 5 de la mañana con un grupo de desconocidos sexys. Estas son sólo algunas de las cosas para las que tienes licencia antes de cumplir 30 años.

10. Tener un tiempo a solas

Disfruta de estar solo haciendo tu manicura y pedicura, leyendo un libro, toma una taza de café, pintar, leer, bloguear, ir a cenar solo, etc. Hay muchas cosas que puedes hacer por tu cuenta y pasar un tiempo a solas es una forma de reconectar contigo Mismo. podría conducir a grandes lluvias de ideas o descubrimientos personales, ¡y eso nunca es malo!

11.  Ditch Things & People Who Do Not Contribute To Your Happiness   

I’m a believer of happiness being a choice. So take a step back and look at your life. Try to identify the people who do nothing to contribute to your happiness. These may be people you call friends but they’re only there when they need a favor. Or perhaps an ex-boyfriend who calls you up when he’s having trouble with something and he sucks the energy out of you again. These are people who have reached the end of the line with you and it’s time to shut the door on them. Your connections with them just don’t enrich your life anymore so it’s best to cut ties.

12.  Date Someone Completely Wrong For You

If you’re single, then enjoy an occasional fling. Kiss a model and talk about it with your friends. Look into his eyes and get lost in whatever’s in there. No one’s asking you to fall in love with the person — just be daring enough to get to know a person who you never thought you’d be with in the first place.

13.  Sing in Front of a Crowd

This reminds me of a scene in My Best Friend’s Wedding where Cameron Diaz sang a tune in a karaoke bar. This one, I particularly enjoy. I can hardly sing but I sing out loud anyway! It’s fun and if you’re doing it with shots, you can get away with it.

14.   Secure a Second Income

Working hard is part of anyone’s life. There are drawbacks in this economy and it seems no one is indispensable when it comes to their jobs. Secure a second income (try etsy.com) while you are young and you have the energy to work longer hours. This will help you set some money aside in case emergencies will come up. Here’s an inspirational example of a woman who is creating a stir with her chunky blankets.

15.   Spend Time With Your Siblings

You grew up with them and whatever it is that you’re going through right now, they’re bound to care. Best to share and receive some advice with someone you have a strong bond with. And if you’re having the time of your life, they’ll want to be a part of it. So hang out with them even if it’s just dinner or a day at the beach.

16.   Accept Your Family For Who They Are

Family has a way of making you think about the person you want to be with for the rest of your life. But if you don’t get along with your family, it makes life so much more stressful. That’s why it’s so important to stop trying to change your siblings and parents and just learn to love them the way they currently are. Realize that you can’t change them, and work around their flaws. If they don’t take advice well, stop giving it. If they go on and on about sports, learn how to gracefully change the subject.

17.  Get a New Online Skill

Techie skills are super valuable, not only for future career prospects, but for daily life. Do you know how to build a website? Or how to encrypt email? No? Then why not learn? Here’s a list of free or cheap online courses.

18.  Learn To Love Exercise

Being young is when we tend to over do things. We have intentions to work longer hours because we’re capable of doing so or we party like crazy thinking that the effects of excessive drinking is something will come at a later age. But being young also reminds us to stay fit and healthy. Now is the time to find an activity that you really enjoy. Try yoga, surfing, basketball, pilates, etc. Try it all! Join teams. If you find a healthy activity that you love, you’ll be rewarded throughout your life.

19.  Find Wine That Matches Your Personality

The beer and tequila shots will meet an end. Figure out what wine suits your taste and personality and order it when someone asks you. It will make you feel more mature and sophisticated.

20.  Learn How To Drive a Manual Car

You’ll never know when the need to drive one will arise (especially while traveling), but it’s best to know how to drive one when the situation calls for it, right? Just make sure your rental car insurance covers any possible damages!

21.  Go To a Music Festival

Yes, you’ve probably been to a music festival before but this time, take things to the next level and go all out. Rent a motor-home and go with your friends. Paint your face and dress up. Disconnect. Get into the groove. Forget your worries.

22.  Go the Extra Mile

In anything that you choose to do, go the extra mile. If you’re focusing on your career, establish a strong foundation that can catapult you to higher places. If you’re in a relationship, maybe it’s about time you make a big gesture. As you get closer to 30, moving in together or proposing marriage can be on the table. Think about it.

23.  Be in Countless Photos 

Capture the moments of being young. Be with the people you love doing crazy things with like bungee jumping or delivering a speech in a debate. After all, selfies can be a path to change!

24.  Learn How To Do Your Makeup

This should be something you have been able to master a long time ago. For some, they were able to do it while they were in high school but others still have some struggles when it comes to doing their eye shadow. Some haven’t yet mastered the art of blending. For others, it’s applying the wrong color on their skin. Whatever your issue is — it has to stop. Now. YouTube “natural look makeup” and watch some tutorials. Then grab a couple of friends, bring a mirror, and ask what they honestly think. Or better yet, learn to feel sexy without makeup!

25.  Decorate Your Room

You’ve grown up. You’ve moved out of your parents and you’re currently sharing a place with roommates or you’re paying for your own place. Whatever is the case, paint your walls something sophisticated and decorate your room. No more stuffed toys in the bedroom, ok? You’ve passed that stage. Go for an older, more sophisticated vibe.

26.  Try a Vibrator

Vibrators weren’t always as common or as socially accepted as they are now. Over the decades, women have fought to have their own right to pleasure – and you can reap the benefits. Pour a glass of wine, turn on some sexy music, dim the lights, and pull out your shiny new vibrator. Learn to enjoy your body without a man.

27.  See a Broadway Show  

For the love of acting and music, see a Broadway show. Experience the art, feel the emotions and enjoy it with someone who loves Broadway or with someone who’s a first timer. Entertain yourselves with a live show of talented performers. Take a break from the cinemas and get to know the theaters. You may just find yourself singing along to songs you know or dancing to a familiar beat.

28.  Start a Garden

They say gardeners don’t have to look for beautiful places because they make beautiful places! This spring, start a garden. You don’t need that much space for it (you can even make one on your balcony!), nor do you need a green thumb. Try having your own small garden of just your favorite flowers. Now, that would be awesome.

29.  Get a Pet

A pet doesn’t have to be high maintenance. If you work, get two kittens or cats from the local animal shelter (never go to a breeder), so they can play with each other when you’re away. Contrary to some rumors, having two cats is no more effort than having one, and they’re just as friendly (if not more, as they may compete for your attention!)

30. Watch 30 Classic Films

No, I’m not talking about National Lampoon. Spend a few months and watch the (yes, black and white) classics, so that when people make references, you’ll get them.

There you have it. Some things which you can possibly do before you enter what many profess is the best part of your life (yes, the best is yet to come!) Age may just be a number but some use it as a basis to take things to the next level or turn things around. So enjoy it and have a happy life!