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4 Reasons Why Men (& Women) Cheat

…plus, how to prevent your lover from cheating.

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Commonly Cited Reasons for Cheating

1. “We don’t have anything in common.”

The more different you and your partner are, the more likely one or both of you will cheat.

2. The relationship isn’t going well.

Okay, okay–I know I just said that a lot of times cheating happens in seemingly happy relationships, and that is true. However, being unsatisfied in a relationship increases the likelihood of cheating. In this scenario, women are more likely to cheat in order to establish a new relationship (and escape the old one), whereas men are more likely to cheat for the thrill of the moment without future plans.

4 Reasons Why Men (& Women) Cheat

3. The cheater’s environment is littered with temptation.

Некоторые ситуации поддаются большему искушению, чем другие. Работа в окружении привлекательных людей, особенно там, где соотношение мужчин и женщин смещено в пользу мошенника, создает вероятный фон для обмана. Работа, которая требует много общения один на один, прикосновений и/или личного раскрытия информации, также повышает вероятность мошенничества.

4. Они склонны к этому.

К сожалению, это правда, что некоторые люди более склонны к обману, чем другие. Выше я упомянул так называемый ген измены, но есть и другие факторы, которые делают одного человека более склонным к обману, чем другого. Извините, ребята, но из-за более высокого уровня тестостерона, как мужчины, вы более склонны к изменам. Люди, которые более непредубеждены, также более склонны к обману, поскольку они, как правило, имеют более гибкий взгляд на это и на все другие вопросы. Наконец, люди, которые менее сочувствующие, менее стремятся угодить и менее осведомлены о том, как их действия влияют на других (нарциссы), более склонны к измене.

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Raised in California and North Carolina, Jen is both an actress and a writer. She loves writing fiction, especially for young adults, and exercising her non-fiction muscles through Urbanette and her chocolate blog: Chocofiles. Jen also loves adventures, yoga, live music and spontaneous dance parties.

Reader Discussion: 53 Comments

  1. The biggest reason for cheating is a lack of emotional connection or the feeling that you’re not appreciated by your partner as much as you deserve. Anyone could resort to cheating as a way to getting everything they lack where they are person even if it means going out of the relationship to achieve that. From an evolutionary perspective, a tendency for an individual to commit an infidelity stems from an attempt to increase the reproductive success at the expense of their partners.

  2. People cheating in relationship just because they find someone more beautiful girl or handsome guy. Or Find someone more financial strong Or Lack of physical intimacy in relationship these will the main important reasons people cheat in relationship.

  3. Why even bother giving people reasons to cheat? We won’t understand their reasons simply because we won’t do it. Cheating is a choice! and it is a wrong choice no matter what!

  4. The reasons are not important. Once you cheat nobody cares what your reason is. all the other one is gonna understand is you are a cheater!

  5. joseph pilar

    in all honesty, having been cheated on feels like shit. ladies cheat to replace, they don’t know how to play and just test the waters. they commit to whomever they are cheating with and invest feelings. fuck that shit, do you even know how guys feel after being cheated on? it’s like having been kicked in the nuts 57 times per second on a span of 3-5 years. you say we move on fast? I say it just doesn’t show. last words I will say to you those of you who cheated will cheat and probably go to them side dudes. y’all need Jesus!

  6. Osana Smith

    How can some people manage on cheating the person that they love? For me, it was a cruel thing to do.

  7. Jodi Thil

    You shouldn’t cheat when your not happy anymore. Have morals with yourself!

  8. Candis Melton

    Yes, it’s true. It’s better to broke up than to cheat. Cheating is such a wrong solution to be! Never right.

  9. Kathryn Gibson

    Honesty should come right next after getting into a relationship. Relationship nowadays just broken up after getting into a problem. They don’t resolve it. They just cheat to get out of their partner.

  10. Милдред Дэвис

    A cheater in a relationship is a relationshit.

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