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Sure, I could kick off this article with all sorts of glum stats about the lack of women in top spots in business in general and in the IT fields in particular. Heck, I’ve been in tech since I was 15, so I know it firsthand. This is the most shocking of the bunch: women hold just 11 percent of the executive positions in Silicon Valley tech companies. Picture all those boardroom table meetings –and all those decisions being made– with only one woman in the room for every nine men. Blech. It’s bleak, I know.
But it’s getting better.
Want proof? Check out this article from The New Yorker that details the ways the hole in the glass ceiling is getting larger. Yes, there are obvious problems with gender diversity in the tech fields and yes, we have miles to go. But some women have risen to the top and are empowering a new generation of women in the industry with their success.
Not only does gender equality provide diverse ideas, but it also fosters the next generation of female leaders by providing like-minded role models and mentors that are often instrumental to one’s success.
Women need to help women to succeed. And in that spirit, here’s a look at five of the most influential and inspiring women in Silicon Valley; how they got there and their glass ceiling-shattering advice:
Sheryl Sandberg
“I think now is our time. My mother was told by everyone that she had two choices: She could be a nurse or a teacher. The external barriers now are just so much lower. If we start acknowledging what the real issues are, we can solve them. It’s not that hard.” – Sheryl Sandberg
Sheryl Sandberg is the most vocal and successful advocate in silicon valley (and perhaps the world) for helping women get to leadership positions. Her books Lean In and Lean In for Graduates (which you can listen to via an Audible free trial) are essential reading for any woman in the workforce and/or trying to start a career.
In high school, she taught aerobics and was “always at the top of her class”. She graduated summa cum laude from Harvard and was awarded the prize for the top graduating student in economics.While at Harvard, she co-founded an organization called Women in Economics and Government. Her then-professor Larry Summers recruited her to be his research assistant at the World Bank, where she worked for approximately one year on health projects in India dealing with leprosy, AIDS, and blindness. She then worked with him while serving as Chief of Staff at the Treasury under President Bill Clinton.
After working as a management consultant for McKinsey & Company, followed by a long-time stint as an executive at Google, Sandberg joined Facebook as COO in 2009. She currently serves on the board of directors for Starbucks, the Center for Global Development, Walt Disney Studios, V-Day and Women for Women International.
With her Facebook stock options, Sandberg is estimated to be worth more than a billion dollars and was named as one of Time Magazine’s 100 Most Influential People in the World.
Ursula Burns
Ursula Burns (left)
“You have to have a very strong opinion with some facts and data to stand it up, you have to prove that you are right more times than you are wrong, and then you better walk into the room with something to say because otherwise you don’t really add a whole lot of value to the group. So if you are going to be in the group, I want you to actually come in … and have an opinion. And I don’t mean just opinion like, ‘I like blue or I don’t like blue.’ This is, ‘We have this problem. Here is my take on the problem, here’s what I’ve learned. My experience is telling me this and this is how I would approach it.’” – Ursula Burns
Ursula’s story is a true American dream story. Burns was raised by a single mother in the Baruch Houses, a New York city housing project. Both of her parents were Panamanian immigrants. Burns worked her way up from a lowly intern at Xerox, to executive assistant, and now serves as Chairwoman and CEO of Xerox. Incredible, right? As such, she is the first African-American woman CEO to head a Fortune 500 company. She is also the first woman to succeed another woman as head of a Fortune 500 company, having succeeded Anne Mulcahy as CEO of Xerox. She serves on numerous professional and community boards, and is a mentor to many. In 2014, Forbes rated her the 22nd most powerful woman in the world. Rightly so!
Marissa Mayer
“I always did something I was a little not ready to do. I think that’s how you grow. When there’s that moment of ‘Wow, I’m not really sure I can do this,’ and you push through those moments, that’s when you have a breakthrough.” – Marissa Mayer
As a child, Mayer was “painfully shy”. In high school, she was on the curling team and the precision dance team, and excelled in chemistry, calculus, biology, and physics. She took part in extracurricular activities, becoming president of her high school’s Spanish club, treasurer of Key Club, captain of the debate team, and —get this— captain of the pom-pom squad! Really. They were state runner-up. She also worked as a grocery clerk during high school. Always the overachiever, while studying artificial intelligence at Stanford, she danced in the university ballet’s Nutcracker, was a member of parliamentary debate, volunteered at children’s hospitals, and helped bring computer-science education to Bermuda’s schools. Oh, and somehow still had time to get honors grades.
Marissa Mayer was Google’s first engineer, a Stanford University alumni with a specialization in artificial intelligence who would eventually be responsible for some of Google’s most recognizable achievements. She was instrumental in developing aspects of Google’s user interface, including its recognizable search page, but was also a critical developer for Gmail and Google Maps. While Mayer was working at Google, she taught introductory computer programming at Stanford and mentored students at the East Palo Alto Charter School. She is now CEO at internet tech company Yahoo!, which the Wall Street Journal notes comes with a hefty compensation package valued at $42.1 million a year. From pom pom squad captain / grocery clerk to shaping the way people use the Internet: You go, girl!
Virginia “Ginni” Rometty
“I learned to always take on things I’d never done before. Growth and comfort do not coexist.” – Virginia Rometty
Once the president of her sorority, and now the CEO of IBM, Rometty has been a practically annual fixture in finance and business magazines’ “Most Influential” and “Most Powerful” lists of notable business people. Her more than 20 years with IBM saw her play an instrumental role in revitalizing the tech giant at the beginning of the century with a transition from hardware to tech services.
Rometty also holds the distinction of also being the first female CEO in IBM’s century-long history. She has been named to Fortunemagazine’s “50 Most Powerful Women in Business” for ten consecutive years, ranking #1 in 2012, 2013 and 2014. An inspiration to women and men alike, she (and the movie Legally Blonde, of course) reminds us that hard work and determination do pay off. Oh yes, and it’s worth noting that she (like I, and many other modern women have) decided not to have children.
Meg Whitman
“Remember that you can do anything you want to do. Don’t let anyone say, ‘You’re not smart enough… it’s too hard… it’s a dumb idea… no one has done that before… girls don’t do that.’ My mom gave me that advice in 1973. And it allowed me to never worry about what others were saying about my career direction.” – Meg Whitman
Meg Whitman has built her reputation in a corporate world still largely run by men. She worked for a number of companies doing brand management and strategy including Disney and DreamWorks, Procter & Gamble, and Hasbro. After that, she served as CEO of eBay. During her 10 years at eBay, she oversaw its expansion from 30 employees and $4 million in annual revenue to more than 15,000 employees and $8 billion in annual revenue.
In 2008, she was cited by The New York Times as among the women most likely to become the first female President of the United States. She is the fourth wealthiest woman in the state of California and she spent more of her own money running for governor of California than any other political candidate spent on a single election in American history. After failing to win the California governor’s race in 2010 she was tapped to run computer giant Hewlett-Packard. She is now the Chairwoman, President and CEO of HP and, in 2014, Whitman was named 20th in Forbes list of the 100 most powerful women in the world.
Change Is Underway
My mom is famous for her “What glass ceiling?” stance. “There’s only a barrier to success if you acknowledge one,” she’d tell me (or something like that). While many would argue that there’s more to it than that, the great thing about the tech world is that you can start a company and, as long as your idea works, it can just as quickly become uber-successful regardless of if you’re a man or woman.
Forbes published some ideas on how to promote female advancement in tech and other STEM fields, which is worth a read. In the meantime, though, I’m grateful these women have paved the way and shown us what can be done.
A writer, artist, and designer since she was young enough to put pencil to paper, Hilary taught herself code and created Urbanette when she was a teenager. Currently, she lives in Monte Carlo, but spent the past decade living in NYC, still considers herself a New Yorker, and visits regularly. She's always traveling, looking for hot new topics, destinations, and life hacks to bring to Urbanette readers.
I strongly believe that the world belongs to those who want to make a difference and gender is no barrier. We have enormously talented women in leadership positions who are rising to the top. These women are making their mark across a diverse range of businesses.
Everyone in this world is competitive. If you’re not the type of person that wants to take a big step forward to make a difference, no one will see you.
I agree. I mean women can run the world right? I mean women are always right. It’s like a superpower; instincts only women have. Like me, I always know. Whether it’d be an incoming sickness, a secret affair, or a hidden agenda, I can tell. Having said so I believe women can be a great asset to a variety of businesses.
There must be no shadow of doubt about how important your goal is to you and how committed and determined you are to achieve it. This initial desire and commitment are what gives you the ammunition to get your goal off the ground. How determined and committed are you to your success? If you always keep yourself in the loop of determination, no glass ceiling can get in your way. If these women aren’t determined and committed, they wouldn’t be anywhere near where they are now.?
Women at the workplace need to put out the signals that they’re in the race too. Be vocal about your ambitions and feats. I’ve always been told, “You’re way more talented than any of the other guys at your level. But they’re a lot more well-known. You need to work on your brand.”
Getting recognition and promotions is more than just working hard — it also often involves being outgoing and making friends with colleagues (and making sure you’re the first to get to the office and the last to leave).
Inspirational women! I want to be successful like them someday. Which is why even if I’m just in high school, I’m trying my best to get straight A’s. I know that in the real world, your grades won’t really matter, but it’s something I want to be proud of. I’m more than just a woman with brains. I take all my dreams seriously and if I’m just as determined as them, I can reach anything. We just have to stay strong in order to break through this glass ceiling or whatever illusion it is.
When I was little, I liked to play football. It never crossed my mind that I could not or should not do it. My father saw nothing wrong with the idea either. Maybe he liked my determination, or maybe he liked the thought of me becoming a “tomboy.”
You see, my Daddy has endured living in a house with four women: my mother, two sisters and myself. Then after expecting his first grandchild, what does he get? A granddaughter. Nonetheless, he has withstood the antics and pressures of the estrogen-driven environment he calls home.
Once, he told me that a real man does not want a woman he can run all over and tell what to do. I guess I am a prime example because I have almost perfected the skill of not shutting up until I get my point across.
Why should women or girls feel inferior to men or boys, anyway? I do not proclaim to be a feminist, but I do know one thing.
Even with the many strides, women have made, we still have some more steps to take….
One thing that women can be judged about is their sensitivity. They think that rational thinking can get in the way of emotional thinking. Let’s face it, we do get hurt easily and men can be cold and heartless when they want to. I’d like to think that us women are soft and can get hurt when the going gets too tough.
I hope no one confuses the glass-ceiling with any other reasons for not getting the promotion. I think good things will always be rewarded. Everyone will be rewarded– and that’s the thing. You have to do more than good in orde to get a better reward. Because someone else can be rewarded better than you were. It’s a competition out there and a few points lagging behind isn’t going to help you achieve the best goal. I know it’s a little harsh and dream crushing for us, but that’s the reality. You can’t be just another fish in the sea.
I always advise women to rely on two senses when it comes to gender equality in the workplace: a sense of confidence and a sense of humor. Confidence is imperative for knowing that you can and should resist people’s stereotypes of what you are capable of doing, and actively solicit people who help you question the status quo in that regard (thanks Mom and Dad!).
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WITH ALL THE FEMALE FOLKS FROM UNITED STATES WRITING A COMMENT HERE, I WONDER WHY HILLARY CLINTON DID NOT WIN THE UNITED STATES PRESIDENCY?
I often wonder that too!!
I strongly believe that the world belongs to those who want to make a difference and gender is no barrier. We have enormously talented women in leadership positions who are rising to the top. These women are making their mark across a diverse range of businesses.
Everyone in this world is competitive. If you’re not the type of person that wants to take a big step forward to make a difference, no one will see you.
I agree. I mean women can run the world right? I mean women are always right. It’s like a superpower; instincts only women have. Like me, I always know. Whether it’d be an incoming sickness, a secret affair, or a hidden agenda, I can tell. Having said so I believe women can be a great asset to a variety of businesses.
CORRECTION WOMEN ARE MOST OF THE TIME RIGHT BUT NOT ALWAYS. ALWAYS IS SUCH A BIG WORD. NOBODY IS PERFECT!
There must be no shadow of doubt about how important your goal is to you and how committed and determined you are to achieve it. This initial desire and commitment are what gives you the ammunition to get your goal off the ground. How determined and committed are you to your success? If you always keep yourself in the loop of determination, no glass ceiling can get in your way. If these women aren’t determined and committed, they wouldn’t be anywhere near where they are now.?
I agree with this. Don’t ever let anything get in your way with your dreams. Don’t doubt your capabilities.
Women at the workplace need to put out the signals that they’re in the race too. Be vocal about your ambitions and feats. I’ve always been told, “You’re way more talented than any of the other guys at your level. But they’re a lot more well-known. You need to work on your brand.”
I agree with you. Sometimes women silence themselves because they fear that they don’t deserve something they obviously do. #sad 🙁
Getting recognition and promotions is more than just working hard — it also often involves being outgoing and making friends with colleagues (and making sure you’re the first to get to the office and the last to leave).
Inspirational women! I want to be successful like them someday. Which is why even if I’m just in high school, I’m trying my best to get straight A’s. I know that in the real world, your grades won’t really matter, but it’s something I want to be proud of. I’m more than just a woman with brains. I take all my dreams seriously and if I’m just as determined as them, I can reach anything. We just have to stay strong in order to break through this glass ceiling or whatever illusion it is.
When I was little, I liked to play football. It never crossed my mind that I could not or should not do it. My father saw nothing wrong with the idea either. Maybe he liked my determination, or maybe he liked the thought of me becoming a “tomboy.”
You see, my Daddy has endured living in a house with four women: my mother, two sisters and myself. Then after expecting his first grandchild, what does he get? A granddaughter. Nonetheless, he has withstood the antics and pressures of the estrogen-driven environment he calls home.
Once, he told me that a real man does not want a woman he can run all over and tell what to do. I guess I am a prime example because I have almost perfected the skill of not shutting up until I get my point across.
Why should women or girls feel inferior to men or boys, anyway? I do not proclaim to be a feminist, but I do know one thing.
Even with the many strides, women have made, we still have some more steps to take….
That’s an interesting story. Thank you for sharing. I hope that there are more people in this world that’s like your dad.
One thing that women can be judged about is their sensitivity. They think that rational thinking can get in the way of emotional thinking. Let’s face it, we do get hurt easily and men can be cold and heartless when they want to. I’d like to think that us women are soft and can get hurt when the going gets too tough.
I hope no one confuses the glass-ceiling with any other reasons for not getting the promotion. I think good things will always be rewarded. Everyone will be rewarded– and that’s the thing. You have to do more than good in orde to get a better reward. Because someone else can be rewarded better than you were. It’s a competition out there and a few points lagging behind isn’t going to help you achieve the best goal. I know it’s a little harsh and dream crushing for us, but that’s the reality. You can’t be just another fish in the sea.
I know, this is the main thing that we also need to understand.
I always advise women to rely on two senses when it comes to gender equality in the workplace: a sense of confidence and a sense of humor. Confidence is imperative for knowing that you can and should resist people’s stereotypes of what you are capable of doing, and actively solicit people who help you question the status quo in that regard (thanks Mom and Dad!).
Women can be as motivated as men. There are also career-driven women out there that prioritizes career more than anything else.