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Thinking About Cheating? 12 Reasons Why You Should
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私は敬意を持っていますか？
あなたの大切な人にボーイフレンドまたはガールフレンドというラベルを付けると、普遍的なコミュニケーションが得られます 献身。 二人の人間、ロマンチックな関係で共有されるものは特別で、深く、プライベートなものとして尊重されます。 不正行為をするつもりなら、なぜわざわざラベルを付けたり、コミットメントについて話したりするのでしょうか?
あなたには逆らえない良心があるかも知れませんが、最終的には相手、つまり特定の行為、言葉、瞬間を二人だけで共有する約束や関係を望んでいる相手を軽視し、不名誉にすることになります。
たとえ罪悪感の心理的な波をなんとか回避できたとしても、自己満足が、献身的な関係における相手の感情、欲求、ニーズへの敬意を上回るのはどの時点でしょうか?
彼らはあなたが何をしたのか知らないかもしれませんが、今では他の2人が知っており、浮気された人に対して残念な意見が両方から形成されるでしょう。 だまされた人は、愚か者のために遊ばれたとみなされるでしょう。
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Ronnie
I’m regretting falling in love with my partner. To begin with, I fell in love with an alcoholic who later became sober within the first year of our relationship. Her sobriety is great, however it showed me the true person that was under the drunken lie. I adjusted my life to help her stay sober and it’s working for her, however it’s taking a toll on me and all the accommodations I’ve made to continue to be in a relationship with her. She’s pushed me away many times over the course of our relationship and even told me if she was me she wouldn’t be in the type of relationship she’s putting me through. She’s so inconsistent in her mind and heart that it’s stifling me now. I recently tried to pull away and take a break, to give her the space and freedom she wants. When I did, she kept reaching out and wouldn’t allow me to clear her from my mind. I came back and not even a week later she was back to being her lame, inconsistent, empty promising, over obsessed with her family’s approval (she’s Latina, deep deep deep deep deep obsession with her family of alcoholics who never knew how to show her love and affection) lackluster self in our relationship again. I have never cheated in any relationship I have been in BUT now I am strongly considering. Simply just to cleanse my mind, body and spirit of her energy. It’s a sad truth and reality that I’m faced with right now.
Dean
No cheater will let their significant other have access to their device which is why it has become so hard for people to get evidence of infidelity. You can break rules to get the peace of mind you deserve. There are only a few people who can pull this off and you have to be extremely careful.
I had to put up with a cheating partner for almost two years until I decided to get evidence since I had nothing on her. It was a tough decision but it was necessary!
Nora
Women cheat on men all the time too…. or at least think about it. I’m not sure why everyone is only focused on men cheating when I know plenty of women face the same problem
Diana
Men who think they’re so attractive cheat. They feel like it adds a length to their thing whenever they cheat. Too bad, because no it doesn’t.
Dawn Breedlove
Excitement really dies. Eventually you’ll get bored of the thrill and what has become of that new found relationship of yours? Nothing.?
Tara Todd
I saw on my newsfeed once about the ad in the billboard when her husband cheated. Kinda thought it was real but that was funny af.
Paula Wilkins
I’ve heard it so many times that men who cheat will blame their partners for their inadequacy. If there’s anyone who’s inadequate, it’s the man who decided to cheat just because of petty reasons. Heard this a lot before and I’ve met men who are worse than the other. Men who want to cheat will find reason in their partners so that they can continue to keep on cheating. I pity those women who get victimized by them because there are times that they would blame themselves.
Sarah Brady
OMG at that photo of the guy who has a tarpaulin hanging on his neck about cheating. That is so funny ? CLASSIC!!!
Maggie French
Men sometimes argue that cheating is subjective and I’m like… ???
Eula Cox
I’m so glad I found a guy who cheated before but completely changed. I know some of you might say that I should watch out, but I know for sure that he’s changed.
MARIA
Lucky for you, because most women have to deal with cheaters who won’t stop.