How To Avoid Online Shopping Scams & Ripoffs

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From Instagram & Facebook ads to ‘sale’ sites, here’s how to avoid getting scammed and ripped off.

If you spend any time at all on Instagram or Facebook, you’ll have noticed slick video product ads for products. If you’ve clicked to buy them, you might have noticed that the websites they take you to don’t look super professional. That’s because there’s a new social media shopping scam in town.

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Before you check out on that shopping site, check out the scam info below!

The scam:

Unethical Chinese companies are setting up websites listing loads of products and advertising them on social media. Except when you buy the product, they send you a box of garbage. Literally.

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They make money because most people don’t remember that they didn’t get the product, or they will be too busy or lazy to bother with doing a return or filing a credit card dispute.

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The fake shopping website that scammed me and my friends. Found via an Instagram ad.

I learned this the hard way when I sent a link I got from an Instagram ad to a bunch of friends and we all ordered self-scooping cat litter boxes that never arrived (instead, we all ended up with boxes of trash from China.) Turns out the video and images of the product were stolen from Kickstarter.

The enablers:

Why doesn’t Instagram and Facebook do anything about this? The same reason they don’t police political ads. For one, they’re making a lot of money on the ads. For two, it would cost a lot of money to staff a department dedicated to figuring out which ads are legit versus fake, and the Chinese scammers can create new websites and ads as fast as social would remove them.

PayPal is a bad-guy in all this too. In what I can only assume is a way to help scammers so they get to keep their commission, PayPal requires you to go to the post office and ship the garbage back to China on your own dime to get a refund.

Here’s how you can avoid getting scammed:

Search for the product on Amazon and/or reverse image search using right-click –> ‘search Google for image’. If you can find it, then order it on Amazon (where it’s usually cheaper anyway). For products that you can’t find on an online store like Amazon (one you know for sure is legit), then realize it’s a scam and don’t buy it. Or do, and just know that you’re most likely just going to donate money to a scammer.

How to get your money back if you got scammed:

Firstly, when making a purchase online always pay via credit card, but only if you can verify that the checkout page is secure and a legit payment processor (if you can’t, that’s a bad sign!) or use credit card with PayPal as the intermediary.

If you don’t get what you ordered, then file a dispute with PayPal, who will tell you to return whatever you were sent at your own expense. This is when you can ignore PayPal and call to your credit card and tell them that you want to initiate a dispute. They’ll ask if you tried to resolve it first with the merchant, and you can tell them that PayPal will only refund you if you spend more money and time to return the box of garbage the seller mailed you. Since you didn’t receive what you paid for, your credit card company should refund you without asking you to return anything. NB: PayPal’s dispute process takes several weeks, then the credit card dispute will take several more weeks to go through this whole process.

More online shopping scams to be aware of:

This video will show you a few more Instagram and Facebook ad scams to watch out for:

A while back, I went to a Gilt event, where Zac Posen had designed a car (apparently, silver is the new cool color for cars). I was standing near him and the pro photographer asked if he could take a photo of us together. I said “No way”, of course — JK! Anyhow, Zac and I chatted for a few minutes (he seemed very down to earth and approachable) before the orchestrators at Gilt decided to open the proverbial barn doors and let everyone stampede into the sale area.

Zac Posen with Hilary Rowland
Zac Posen with Hilary Rowland

Now, you’d expect a Gilt sale to be super amazing, right? I’d imagined racks of designer clothing, in perfect shape, at rock-bottom prices. But no, actually. Most of the items looked like they’d been stuffed in someone’s closet for a year, and they were clearly returns or items that didn’t sell. There was pretty much one of each item, sooooo hope it fits! Beyond that, the items weren’t any cheaper (as far as I could tell, anyway) than their mildly discounted web sales.

The way most discount or flash sale websites work is this: they take an item, change the name so you can’t Google it, and sell it for around what you’d get it for elsewhere (if not more). They flat-out lie about the “original/retail price” then they tack on the extra bonuses of expensive and slow shipping and a final-sale no-return policy. Nice.

One Kings Lane

One Kings Lane hides the fact that they’re selling products for more than retail. They artificially inflate the “retail” price (like, way high) and charge more than retail, all the while pretending it’s on some sort of hugely discounted sale. Oh, and they deliberately rename all the products so it’s hard to find them (and realize that they’re cheaper) on Google.

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Like the white lamp above? I first saw it for $169 plus expensive and slow shipping and tax on OneKingsLane, and loved it, but I ended up buying it for $79 all-in at Walmart (it was also $79 at Overstock.)

Here’s another example: Their “Houston End Table” was on “sale” at One Kings Lane for $329 +$32 shipping ($361.) Yet I managed to find the exact same table (sold on about ten different websites, at the time) and, at the time of the One Kings Lane sale, the normal retail price was $287 with free shipping, which is $74 cheaper than the supposedly discounted price at One Kings Lane.

Oh yeah, and unlike these daily deal sites (aside from Joss & Main, which actually has some good deals and allows returns), the majority of regular online stores give you the option to return the product if you don’t like it for some reason.

Wondering if the product you’re drooling over is available on other sites? The fastest way to find out is to right-click the image and select “Search Google for this image”. Happy shopping!

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On the web: $89.95 and free 2nd day delivery — on One Kings Lane: $99 + $9.95 for shipping (=$20 more), and it’ll arrive in (get this) literally a MONTH!

Gilt

I think the image below pretty much sums it up. Oh, and Amazon has free and fast shipping, while Gilt’s shipping is $$$ and super slow, which brings the price to more than a 50% markup. Same kind of ripoff as One Kings Lane.

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Update:

I got an email from GILT’s PR / media relations, who wanted us to change this article, since I outed them for their dishonest practices. This was the rationalization:

“The ‘retail/original’ price listed on GILT’s sales of all products on our site reflects the price reported by the manufacturer and may not always represent the prevailing price for retailers or department stores on every day or in every community. For international sales, the Full Retail Price is based on what such items would be sold at in the US market or in the worldwide online market, plus taxes, shipping and additional international surcharges, if applicable.”

So it sounds like they basically figure out how they can make it sound the highest, between what the manufacturer says, the highest price it’s selling for anywhere, and what other charges they can add to the “retail” price like tax, duty, and shipping that some customers may have had to pay depending on where they would have bought it and then shipped it. Not exact transparent…

I personally think that strategy is very misleading at best, and I replied and said that the only price that people care about is the item’s current price at other stores — not the absolute maximum price it has historically sold for anywhere, including duty and tax, etc!

As a side note, I tried to find retailers selling Gilt products for as high as the price they listed as the non-sale price, and I couldn’t. Soooo…

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Hilary Rowland

A writer, artist, and designer since she was young enough to put pencil to paper, Hilary taught herself code and created Urbanette when she was a teenager. Currently, she lives in Monte Carlo, but spent the past decade living in NYC, still considers herself a New Yorker, and visits regularly. She's always traveling, looking for hot new topics, destinations, and life hacks to bring to Urbanette readers.

Reader Discussion: 296 Comments

  1. There’s an email going round offering ten tickets for tonight’s lottery for 1. It might be genuine, but when they start asking for bank details, and the “root” of the email address looks nothing like a connection to a euro millions, I’d be very careful about what you hand them.

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  2. If something feels like fraud, chances are it is one. You can also ask someone who knows about cyber security, it’s better to be considered ignorant by peers than being taken for a ride and be a fool in your own eyes. Opening unnecessary tabs, flickering, hanging etc. are usual indicators.

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  3. Go for reliable shopping websites which is trusted by fellow shoppers.
    Ask your friends and colleagues for ideas on shopping and which online seller they usually shop from. Take ideas from fashion bloggers as they would recommend you popular and reliable online shopping stores.

    Always go for cash on delivery because you’ll be paying only when the order is delivered to you.

    Trusted sellers have a name among the online shoppers and their products are reviewed by thousands of customers, so you don’t have to worry about the originality of the product or any online theft.

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  4. Yes! Biggest online shopping scams involve the use of social media platforms to set up fake online stores. They open the store for a short time, often selling fake branded clothing or jewellery. After making a number of sales, the stores disappear. They also use social media to advertise their fake website, so do not trust a site just because you have seen it advertised or shared on social media. The best way to detect a fake trader or social media online shopping scam is to search for reviews before purchasing.

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  5. The biggest tip-off that a retail website is a scam is the method of payment. Scammers will often ask you to pay using a money order, pre-loaded money card, or wire transfer, but if you send your money this way, it’s unlikely you will see it again or receive your purchased item.

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  6. Not all of them are scams. I make a living off from selling prom, wedding and evening dresses ordered from china and so far only one oops and that was my test run. You have to know what to look for. Like their percentage rating, below 99% is no go buy. Custom made should not be chosen even if the rating is 100% cause, well you will get what the people who scammed got, instead look for sellers that let you choose your size and colour then you know it will come out like the pic. Always make double sure of rating, it can be 100% and still have neg feed back and read them it’ll help you to know if you should trust them or not. And anything saying wholesale usually come out the same. Descriptions are there for you to read so read it it will enlighten you on the right sizing etc. Always measure yourself cause china size are always smaller than your country’s sizes even if it’s available in those sizes. They do provide sizing charts.

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  7. I have been purchasing online products in the past 4 years in various sites. Never been scammed but I am deeply depressed about the quality of the products available on them.

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  8. I got my son a toy that helps with tummy time that you fill up with water and the little toys float around in it, sounded fun for him so I got it and it smelled like straight up like a air mattress but I decided to give a shot and filled it up and sealed it. Well he hated it and couldn’t lift himself no matter what position I put him in. No more sopping from Asian sites!

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  9. Shopping online isn’t bad, you just have to be smart enough to not order from straight-from-China “boutiques”. The quality is trash and most stuff is made to fit a 5 year old.

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  10. Don’t bye products like this from vendors like Wish or Aliexpress. They are made under inhumane conditions. When I was in design school we analysed the fur and components in cheap copies and it was filled with dog and cat hair. It’s not uncommon that bad factories chain children down to sowing machines either. Those low low prices means someone else’s low low salary and living conditions.

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