I started Urbanette when I was fifteen, which is farther in the past than I’d like to admit. Creating Urbanette was much more difficult than starting a lifestyle blog nowadays. When I was a kid, I was obsessed with magazines. I grew up in rural Canada (like, really really rural — no visible neighbors and the nearest stoplight was a ten-minute drive away if I was speeding). I used to beg my dad to take me to the local garbage dump because there was always a tall stack of magazines next to the recycling, just begging for me to go through it and pick which to rescue. My favorites were Sassy and Jane, neither of which exist in print anymore. They were opinionated and feminist, with very little of the typical gender-role BS. My dream was to be a magazine writer, or better yet, also in charge of a magazine.

So when I got hooked up to the Internet, I immediately moved from writing in my notepad to typing out my opinions and publishing them online. I taught myself HTML by looking at the code of other websites, and built mine from the ground up using trial and error. I started the first online magazine, so (obviously) back then there weren’t any resources to help me start my blog, let alone any content about how to learn programming.
Nowadays, starting a blog is so much easier. That’s why there are so many of them. There are website builders that do all the coding for you — for free. There are grammar check apps that automatically check your writing as you type. There are books that offer sage advice for newbie lifestyle bloggers.
Over the years, many of my friends and readers have asked me for advice about how to start a blog. So, to make things easier for myself all of you, here is everything you need to know:
Start by asking yourself what lifestyle topics you’re interested in
Your lifestyle blog will only be successful if you are passionate about the topics you’re blogging about. You’re also far more likely to keep it going and post regularly if you’re writing about something you’d be researching or doing anyway.
For example, if your Pinterest boards are all about food, and you love cooking, then you could start a blog about food and provide recipes and instructional videos. If you love interior design, then give your personal take on the coolest apartments around the world, coupled with your pick of the best products, and throw in some DIY tutorials. You get the picture.
It’s best to stick to one theme, like style (fashion and home decor), or financial tips (career, budget tips, and money management) for women, etc. so you can become known as an expert in that field. It also makes it easier to secure advertisers in your focus area (more about that below), since they can be sure that 100% of your readers are into learning about said topic.

Pick a name and a tagline
Once you have your topic, make a list of names you’re considering. The best names are short — one or two words. For example, Deliciously Ella is a great name because it’s unique, personal, playful, and perfect for a food blog. Stumped? Make a list of words that describe your blog, and their synonyms, then mix and match them.
To see if you can actually use the name:
- Check if the .com domain name is available by searching on GoDaddy.com. If it’s available, register it! If it’s not, then try a different name.
- Important tips:
- Don’t register it if it’s only available with dashes or funny spelling. If Deliciously Ella had registered www.deliciously-ella.com, or deliciously-ellas.com while www.deliciouslyella.com was already taken, she would have lost a lot of readers who’s friends told them to go to Deliciously Ella .com. Not to mention, she would’ve had no control over what the owner of www.deliciouslyella.com put at that domain (that’s scary!)
- Keep it simple and memorable. Don’t use hard-to-remember or hard-to-pronounce words. Assume that people will be talking about your blog and pick a name that they’re likely to be able to easily say, remember, and spell.
- Important tips:
- Google the names you’re considering to make sure nobody else is currently using the same name. If they are, you could consider buying it from them and having them sign a contract saying they’re selling you the rights and they won’t use that name again.
- Once you’ve settled on a name, trademark it so nobody else can use it. It requires a bit of research, but you can do this yourself.
Next: create a tagline. It should explain what your blog is about in about 10 words, but still sound intriguing. For example, Deliciously Ella’s is: “Love Your Life, Love Your Food, Love Your Self”.
Get your website and social channels set up
- When you’re starting out, free website builders like WIX are a huge time-saver. They take a couple of hours to get a website set up, and let you get started without any programming skills. You literally just follow the simple instructions, pick a design you like, and drag-and-drop text boxes and other elements. Eventually you can switch to WordPress, which is what Urbanette uses, but that comes with a load of headaches that you don’t need when you’re just starting out.
- Make a text-based logo. Sites like 99designs and CrowdSpring are great for this. Pick a simple and elegant one that looks great small, since it’ll be small on social networks.
- You’ll also need to sign up on Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram under your new blog name and use your tagline as the ‘bio’ or summary. If you already have accounts with a following, change your username and info to your new blog name so you can keep your following. Here’s another valuable trick I learned: you can use Dlvr It to auto-post from Instagram to Facebook and Twitter, which saves a ton of time.
Create pretty, personality-filled lifestyle content that ranks well in Google
Start with your ‘About’ page. Explain your motivation for starting your blog, and include a couple of great photos of you, looking relatable. Here’s Deliciously Ella’s fantastic ‘About’ page.
Great lifestyle bloggers don’t just teach; they tell stories. People won’t return to your blog again and again to read content that they could easily find elsewhere. They will return because they are interested in your unique and personality-filled perspective and experiences. Don’t write dry, boring articles. Instead, create your own style.
Take time to photograph, edit, and add fantastic photos to each article.
Make sure your posts are filled with great photos. Try the easy-to-use exposure settings on BeFunky, and as you get more comfortable with photo editing, upgrade to Pixlr. Canva is great for making Pinterest-worthy images with text overlays.
SEO (Search Engine Optimization) is a way to get your blog posts to show up when someone searches for similar keywords in Google. It’s essential that you learn this, and then keep these strategies in mind before, during, and after writing a blog post.
Submit guest posts to other lifestyle blogs
The best way to get more eyeballs to your blog is to guest post on other lifestyle blogs and poach their readers. Make sure that the blog you’re contributing to has a section that covers the same general topic as your blog, since you’ll be writing about the same topic area. If your article is filled with personality and well-researched, then readers will want to read more from you; they’ll check out your bio and continue to your blog. Presto! A new reader!
Many websites have a page about guest posting. Urbanette’s is here. Lifestyle blogs get a lot of guest posting offers, so you’ll need to make yours stand out. Make sure your pitch isn’t generic. Read some of the articles on the website and suggest some article you could write for them. Tell them the potential title, and describe the article in at least a paragraph of detail.
Make Money
Once you have a decent following, you can start turning a profit.
- Affiliate marketing agencies like Commission Junction let you place affiliate links in your articles and, if someone clicks through and makes a purchase, then you get paid a % commission. Here’s a tutorial on that.
- If you have a larger following, another way to make money is to join an influencer network. There are tons of these, and new ones popping up all the time, so spend some time searching around for them. If you’re not sure what to charge, check out this blog post (and the comment from Sarah Woodstock).
- Look into drop-ship options. Basically, you’d pick products you like and set up an online store (which you can do through WIX). When you get orders, you copy them to your drop-shipper and they handle the manufacturing, inventory, and shipping for you.
- Create a book from your blog posts. You can get this published by a traditional book publisher, you could self-publish using CreateSpace, or you could sell a PDF version on your website. You could even make a short book and give it away to people who sign up for your email newsletter (which is easy to set up on Substack).
A couple more important tips
- Create a comfortable workspace for yourself at home. Make it a quiet place where you can concentrate on writing, and that isn’t cluttered. Decorate it in a way that you find relaxing and inspiring. Make it your own little writing sanctuary.
- Don’t view other bloggers as competition. Everyone is different and you should try to be unique. Jealousy will only set you back. Instead, befriend and collaborate with other lifestyle bloggers. You’ll succeed so much faster if you collaborate rather than compete!
There you have it! If you listen to these audiobooks and follow my instructions, you could get your blog up and running over a weekend. The hardest part is thinking up unique content on the regular, and getting readers. But if you’re determined, you’ll get the hang of it! Many of the most successful lifestyle bloggers almost gave up before their tipping point, so stay excited and passionate, and don’t get discouraged!
If you have other questions, let me know below.



I want to try the audiobook entitled Blogging Your Way To The Front Row. I’m a fan of yours, Hilary. I’m starting to make a blog, but I have no idea how to gain readers.
Blogging is very popular today. It is a good way to earn money too. Of course, your blog must be interesting so that you can have a lot of readers. Imagine you are the one reading the article that you are making, is it interesting?
Great tip! Everyone should ask themself: Would I find this article interesting enough to share with my friends? Could I improve this article somehow?
I used to read Sassy and Jane too! Yay! I love those magazines!!! I wish I kept the copies that I have before. I used to collect them when I was a child. I remember the Jane magazine where the cover is Drew Barrymore.
I will share this one with my friend. She’s a fan of yours and is always telling me to check out your articles.
Are the audiobooks are for free? I want that too. I want to start my own blog, and it is all because of you, Hilary.
Yes, Audible has a free trial. 🙂
I agree with you. You have to be passionate about on what you are doing. Doing something that you won’t love is nonsense. That’s the reason why I gave up medicine course, and start the course that I want.
OMG! I wanted to start a blog, and I don’t know how. I’m glad I took a glance in this post. I will follow everything that you have said. Yay! I’m excited. ^___^
I do, admire your perseverance, Hilary. I don’t usually read magazines, but when I read yours, it hooked me up. I always wait for your new posts every week.
Thank you so much!
There’s no easy way to becoming successful. It consists of hard work and perseverance. Hilary, you are truly an inspiration to all women out there. Reading how your magazine become successful is overwhelming.
Thanks for the detailed and precise info on blogging! I’m on my way to earning more ????