Why People Cheat + other Weekly Discoveries

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The real reason why people cheat, how to keep your friends in your 30’s, NYC’s neighborhoods by personality type, and more…

We are all part of a global community, and in that spirit we take each Friday to spread the love to others who’ve inspired us. In our Great Discoveries series, we feature the most interesting articles, a must-watch video and the most inspirational quote we discovered this week. Please spread the love and enjoy your day!

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The Judgemental NYC Subway Map

A NYC subway map that tells you what kind of people live near every station. Great if you’re thinking of moving, or just want to get a lay-of-the land. There’s also a link to a map with the best bars by every subway stop. [Read it at Thrillist]

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A Couples Therapist Explains the 4 Relationship Killers that End Marriages

Because you can never be too careful, when something’s that important… [Read on Business Insider]

This one you just have to watch to understand:
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Why People Cheat in Relationships

…and how to prevent it. Seriously – this article makes so much sense!! :/  [Read on Mark Mason’s blog]

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The Secret to Keeping Your Friends in Your 30’s

No time? We know the feeling. Here’s how to make sure you don’t lose friends, even though you have almost no time for them. [Read in NY Mag]

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Reader Discussion: 36 Comments

  1. Wow, what a great set of ideas. Well done a very simple and concise post. I also loved the quote by Eleanor Roosevelt, one of my favorite activist. Looking forward to learning more from reading your articles. Thank you for sharing this.

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  2. I personally think that having a baby, child or children ruins a marriage. I mean children cause disagreements between the husband and the wife. Well, it’s an issue I’ve observed with relatives.

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  3. Love your collection! I always thought the reasons for divorce were adultery, substance abuse, & physical violence. You gave me new learning! Thanks, Urbanette!

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  4. Great discoveries!

    Friendship like romantic relationship requires hard work and patience. I only have a limited number of friends but I’m sure that they are my friends for keep.

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  5. Oh yes! I’ve been asking this question… why people cheat! I love that article citing Genghis Khan. Indeed, relationship is a choice and decision that we have to make everyday, never ever think of it as an obligation!

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    • “To achieve that intimacy and love, you have to sacrifice your own self-gratification at times.” I beg to disagree with you… It’s hard (and almost impossible) not consider a relationship as an obligation!

      The moment you entertained a relationship, you want it to last, which can only be achieved if you learn to be responsible for each other’s happiness and fulfillment. Thus, it becomes an obligation…

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  6. I’d like to comment on article about things that end marriages. I have lots of friends who end up getting a divorce because of financial issues. I think “money” or economical problems should be included in the list.

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  7. We just adopted a second cat. It’s kitten season, so maybe you can post something about the best places to look for kitten adoptions? (Older cats are great too, BTW)

    That NYC subway map is awesome BTW!

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