Your Top 20 Bucket List for Living the Good Life

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How highly successful people end up living their best life possible.

For all of their differences, there’s a great deal of similarity amongst those who have achieved their wildest dreams. For one thing, they prioritize their basic needs. Having your basic needs taken care of gets them out of the way. It frees up energy to flow in other directions.

Highly successful people are known to for their willingness to step outside of their comfort zones. While that trait alone is impressive, it’s the ability to do it every day that makes all the difference. So, if you want to live your good life, let this article get you in motion! Here’s your top 20 bucket list to help you reach as far as you dare:

1. Do something that makes you really uncomfortable.

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โ€œYou gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, ‘I have lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.’ You must do the thing you think you cannot do.โ€ โ€“Eleanor Roosevelt

2. Set a physical challenge for yourself, and see it through to the end.  

โ€œIn running, it doesnโ€™t matter whether you come in first…in the middle of the pack…or last. You can say, โ€˜I have finished.โ€™ There is a lot of satisfaction in that.โ€ โ€“Fred Lebow

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3. Take the time to figure out what you really want.

โ€œChoose a job you love, and you will never have to work a day in your life.โ€ โ€“Confucius

4. Volunteer for one night per week.

โ€œBe of service. Whether you make yourself available to a friend or co-worker, or you make time every month to do volunteer work, there is nothing that harvests more of a feeling of empowerment than being of service to someone in need.โ€ โ€“Gillian Anderson

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5. Take a genuine interest in the people around you.

โ€œEveryone wants more than anything to be allowed into someone else’s most secret self. Everyone wants to allow someone into their most secret self.โ€ โ€“Aidan Chambers

6. Learn to let people help you, too.

โ€œYou need other people, Madeline. Thereโ€™s a great freedom in knowing that. And accepting that. And letting people in. Letting them help you.โ€ โ€“Blake Nelson

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7. Cultivate the habit of letting go. Everything and anything that’s getting in your way–let it go now. 

โ€œLet it go, let it go!โ€ โ€“Frozen

8. Do something for someone else, without expecting anything in return.

โ€œWhen you’ve seen beyond yourself then you may find peace of mind is waiting there, and the time will come when you see we’re all one, and life flows on within you and without you.โ€ โ€“The Beatles

9. Give yourself time to wander this wonderfully diverse and complex world we live in.

โ€œTwenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didnโ€™t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines, sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.โ€ โ€“Mark Twain

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10. Dance shamelessly and as often as possible.  

โ€œTo dance is to be out of yourself. Larger, more beautiful, more powerful. This is power, it is glory on earth, and it is yours for the taking.โ€ โ€•Agnes De Mille

11. Face your past. And then let it go.

โ€œBe not the slave of your own past – plunge into the sublime seas, dive deep, and swim far, so you shall come back with new self-respect, with new power, and with an advanced experience that shall explain and overlook the old.โ€ โ€“Ralph Waldo Emerson

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12. Make peace with who you are.

โ€œWe did not change as we grew older; we just became more clearly ourselves.โ€ โ€“Lynn Hall

13. Learn to meditate.

โ€œThe soul always knows what to do to heal itself. The challenge is to silence the mind.โ€ โ€“Caroline Myss

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14. Cultivate your sense of gratitude.

โ€œBe thankful for your trials. If youโ€™re being tested, youโ€™re being perfected. Which means you have a divine purpose and reason to rejoice.โ€ โ€“Unknown

15. Accept that there will be failures and setbacks along the way, and that sometimes your progress will appear very small by comparison. Keep moving forward anyway.

โ€œFinish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some blunders and absurdities have crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day. You shall begin it serenely and with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense.โ€ โ€”Ralph Waldo Emerson

16. Embrace the joy in life.

โ€œOwning our story can be hard but not nearly as difficult as spending our lives running from it. Embracing our vulnerabilities is risky but not nearly as dangerous as giving up on love and belonging and joyโ€”the experiences that make us the most vulnerable. Only when we are brave enough to explore the darkness will we discover the infinite power of our light.โ€ โ€“Brenรฉ Brown

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17. Spend time alone.

โ€œThe most important relationship in your life is the relationship you have with yourself. Because no matter what happens, you will always be with yourself.โ€ โ€“Diane Von Furstenberg

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18. Go vegan, and let it open your heart.

โ€œI have from an early age abjured the use of meat, and the time will come when men such as I will look upon the murder of animals as they now look upon the murder of men.โ€ – Leonard da Vinci

19. Find something you can do with absolute abandon.

โ€œDo anything, but let it produce joy.โ€ โ€“Walt Whitman

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20. Make space in your life for media-free time.

โ€œIt’s called ‘the web’ because once you’re in it, you’re stuck.โ€ โ€“Terry Hall

What are your tips for living the good life?

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Hilary Rowland

A writer, artist, and designer since she was young enough to put pencil to paper, Hilary taught herself code and created Urbanette when she was a teenager. Currently, she lives in Monte Carlo, but spent the past decade living in NYC, still considers herself a New Yorker, and visits regularly. She's always traveling, looking for hot new topics, destinations, and life hacks to bring to Urbanette readers.

Reader Discussion: 64 Comments

  1. Well put! Life is way more than making a list of things that you would like to do. If you don’t think about the activities within your Bucket List, it becomes yet another “to-do” list. However, with much thought about what’s important to you and where your life is headed, your bucket list can become truly meaningful. Thank you for this article! ๐Ÿ™‚

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  2. Fantastic read. The journey is the reward. If youโ€™re willing to take action on your goals, it’ll be very rewarding at the end. The goals donโ€™t change your life but the process of accomplishing them does.

    These items on this article will require you to challenge yourself; mentally, emotionally, and physically. Youโ€™ll be forced out of your comfort zone, youโ€™ll break old habits, and youโ€™ll learn to adapt to strange situations. Youโ€™ll build confidence, destroy fear, and overcome self-doubt.

    What’s more rewarding than that?

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  3. Some very inspirational ideas. This articles proves that a bucket list isnโ€™t just about accomplishing a bunch of selfish goals before you die. Itโ€™s so much more than that.

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    • That’s right! The value of a Bucket List isnโ€™t in the goals themselves, but in what you gain in the process of achieving those goals; strength, courage, confidence, determination, humility, compassion, understanding, and a sense of adventure.

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  4. I always love reading people’s bucket lists. I find them inspiring. Your bucket list really is a great way to maintain and map out anyone’s wants and goals in life. I must really start working on my bucket list too. Then, I will keep manifesting them. ๐Ÿ™‚

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  5. I still haven’t make my list yet. Guess most of my goals will be about traveling and eating, but the most important most probably will be: Having peace of mind. Your advise is always so measured, sensible and incredibly loving. This article resonates with me and I am grateful for it. Thank you for your wonderful advice.

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  6. Thank you so much Hilary. You’re the best. You inspired me to make my own list which I have been procrastinating for years now ๐Ÿ˜€ . You have no idea how much I needed to hear this right now. Hope to complete my list soon. ๐Ÿ™‚

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  7. Hilary, you are a miracle in so many ways. Thanks for yet another inspiring article and for sharing this with us. Before I start on my list, I just wanted to commend on your no.1. I agree! the more comfortable you get with trying new things, the more you’re going to say yes to new challenges. I always love to read you but today you outdid yourself!

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  8. Love this. Very helpful way to put together a good list. I felt my heart opening as I read it. Thank you Hilary for putting it into words. Iโ€™ll re-read this again today to bolster my spirits.

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  9. You are absolutely AWESOME!!

    Seriously, while reading this entry, I was so inspired by your suggestions and ideas. The attitude you have towards life is fantastic, and I love meeting people like you who are aware of all the awesomeness that the big glorious world has to offer.

    Thank you for leading the way and for setting the example. You rock!

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  10. Hi Hilary, I really enjoyed reading your list. Some things are quite similar to mine. Some I’ve already done. The main message I got from it was, don’t dull your senses if you aren’t happy but instead use your time wisely to better yourself and advance yourself into doing something that does fulfill you. Excellent point. Have a great day! ๐Ÿ™‚

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