The Rape Culture Epidemic: Are Colleges Enabling Rape?

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Are Colleges Enabling Rape?

College campuses are a dangerous place for female students — and colleges don’t have much sympathy.

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It was Halloween night. The chill from the late fall air had settled over my suburban Philadelphia college campus. Bed-sheet ghosts and red-eyed angels stumbled back to their dorms, still buzzed from their respective parties. My best friend and I hugged, shaking from the steadily dropping temperature. We gave each other a nod, mutually agreeing that our night’s activities had come to an end.

We made our way through a campus building’s parking lot, en route to the school’s shuttle stop. This large bus was going to be our savior for the night, dropping us off at the stop right in front of our apartment. But before we could make it across the street, we watched in horror as the shuttle both came and left. That meant thirty more minutes would have to pass before our next crimson-colored chariot arrived. That, or we walked. It sucked, but it wasn’t the end of the world.

With slumped shoulders and dreams of blankets dancing in our heads, we continued on to the shuttle stop. The air temperature around us seemed to dropped twenty more degrees as a voice called out, “Well hello ladies. Still looking for a good time?”

Are Colleges Enabling Rape?

Under the weak light of a street lamp, five men stood outside a campus apartment building, smoking. They began to slowly move closer, calling out again, “C’mon, your night can’t be over yet.”

This is a world where prestigious Ivy League fraternities can chant “No means yes, yes means anal,” and only be reprimanded when there is a national outcry.

The two of us took a few, tiny steps back. We didn’t want to take our eyes off of these men. Within seconds, my friend had campus public safety dialed on her phone. When they answered, we were clear with our concern.

“Hello? Yes, can two girls have a ride back to Merion Gardens apartment? We’re by the business school.” Her voice is shaking, and I’m still closely watching the group, that is now staring and motioning over to us.Are Colleges Enabling Rape?

“Yes, I’m aware the shuttle stops over there. But it comes in a half an hour, and we feel very unsafe. Yes, unsafe, there are a bunch of–“, She removed her phone from her face and stared at it. With wide eyes, she looked up at me. “They hung up”. We decided to power through, and try to get to the shuttle stop. But once again, these men called out.

“So do you girls not wanna trick or treat? We’ve got some goodies for you.” The group erupted into laughter, while our faces went pale. My brain began to concoct the worst case scenario. There were two of us…and five of them. The fight would be nowhere near fair. We could scream and kick all we want, but their strength would overpower us soon enough. All we could do was turn a blind ear and inch closer to the shuttle stop, keeping our fingers crossed.

Suddenly, our strained prayers were answered. In front of us pulled up a maroon public safety van, and we jumped in, arguably while it was still moving.

“Merion Gardens!”, my friend and I blurted out, watching the group of men recede back into the shadows. The driver looked at us apathetically and nodded.

Safe. Or were we? The officer in the passenger seat decided to prove me wrong.

“Did you hear that call that came in about girls feeling ‘unsafe’?”, he asks the van driver. “What bullshit. If you don’t feel safe, just walk away. Girls parade around in these skimpy outfits and then wonder how they end up in these situations.”

In the back seat, I clenched my fists. How could any girl feel comfortable around this campus when this was the protecting force? He continued on his sexist diatribe. “These girls should feel ashamed of themselves.” With that single line, I felt the gnawing teeth of rape culture cut me to pieces. I’d never be fully safe on my own college campus.

Are Colleges Enabling Rape?

The number of rapes reported on college campuses can be categorized as an epidemic. A recent study conducted by Brown University concluded that one in five female college freshmen will experience sexual violence within their first year of school. Out of the women surveyed, about 20% reported being forcibly raped while incapacitated. Do we even have to preface it with the word “forcibly”? The very act of rape is forced. No one can be willingly raped.

Forty percent of colleges haven’t investigated a single rape case in the past five years.

In the same vein, the phrase “consensual sex” should be deemed as oxymoronic. All sex should be consensual. If it isn’t, then it’s rape. Even if sex was agreed upon initially, even if sex was occurring, the second there is a hesitation or objection, all consent is gone, and an act of sexual assault replaces it. However, by prefacing the “type of sex”,  the language suggests that women should feel some sort of shame for having sex, and that they are the cause for assault. This leads to finger pointing and derogatory phrases targeting survivors and women in general. It’s this culture that has led to nearly one in three college men admitting they might rape a woman if they knew no one would find out and they wouldn’t face any consequences.

The usage of this language is just one of the effects rape culture has had on our society. When 20% to 25% of female college freshmen report being the victim of sexual assault, we need to halt the senseless victim blaming and fix the problem at hand. There needs to be action taken against the attackers and the abolishment of the “was she was asking for it?” question. The “boys will be boys” excuse is archaic and wrong. Boys can be boys all the want, but when those boys become rapists, there is no justification of their behavior that can be solely based on their gender.

Are Colleges Enabling Rape?

In October of 2010, the Yale fraternity Delta Kappa Epsilon paraded through a portion of campus mostly inhabited by freshman women, chanting phrases deeply rooted in rape culture. This is a world where prestigious Ivy League fraternities can chant “No means yes, yes means anal,” and only be reprimanded when there is a national outcry. Since then, the chapter has been disbanded indefinitely. But why did it take a blatant, public act of sexual harassment for the country to understand that this type of behavior is not uncommon on a college campus?

One in three college men are predators — they admit they might rape a woman if they knew they could get away with it.

It is the very fear of being judged by their peers and faculty that keep survivors of sexual assault quiet. Much like the public safety officer I encountered, there are people out there who have no problem loudly voicing their ignorant opinions. These statements do not fall on deaf ears, however they do silence trembling mouths. Another factor weighing on women is the fact that most rape cases aren’t even investigated (in fact, 40% of colleges haven’t investigated a single rape case in the past five years), and even if the rapist is found guilty, about 90% of the time the punishment is very minimal, like simply writing a letter of apology.

The humiliation of sexual assault survivors on college campuses is a testament to the flawed priorities many institutions have. By shining a spotlight on the victims, what administrations are doing is creating a situation where she is no longer allowed to concentrate on her studies (if she was even able to, after such a traumatic experience), but instead is forced to live with almost constant distraction, shame and ridicule.

Are Colleges Enabling Rape?

Another problem plaguing college campuses is the number of rapes committed by student athletes — and these administrations’ hustle to clean up the mess. Why does society feel the need to pretend that collegiate athletes are above such vulgar behaviors? To still cheer for a team that has sexual predators on it because “not the entire team is at fault”?

Are Colleges Enabling Rape?Administrations will go to great lengths to protect their biggest sources of income; the student athletes. A school that has been outed for having this problem, and mishandling it, is the University of Notre Dame. In 2010, Lizzy Seeburg (a freshman at Saint Mary’s College, across the street from Notre Dame) accused a member of the ‘Fighting Irish’ football team of sexually assaulting her. With the help of a friend, she penned this awful event in a statement that she and her friend signed and handed over to authorities. But the nightmare didn’t end there. A member of the Notre Dame football team texted Seeberg shortly after, telling her that “messing with Notre Dame football is a bad idea.”

Nine days later, after no protective action or investigation was taken by the school, Seeberg committed suicide. Even after that tragedy, it took the school nearly a week to interview the accused. The ruling was in favor of the football player, who then played in the BCS bowl game shortly after, with not even the slightest repercussions. Lizzy Seeberg was failed by her classmates, by her college, by and by society. All to protect a tradition based on patriarchal values and the “sacredness” of the game of football.

Are Colleges Enabling Rape?

The Hunting Ground, a documentary released in the spring of 2015, sheds a blinding light on the mishandling of campus rape by universities. It tells the story survivors turned activists, taking their cases all the way to the White House and sparking reform in rape investigation and charges. The documentary also features a song written by pop star Lady Gaga, titled “Til It Happens To You”, which you can watch here (but as a warning to survivors of sexual assault, the images and situations can be upsetting and triggering):

“I didn’t know how to think about it,” Lady Gaga said in a TimesTalks panel discussion. “I didn’t know how to accept it. I didn’t know how to not blame myself or think it was my fault. It’s something that really changed my life. It changed who I was completely. It changed my body, it changed my thoughts.” The singer spoke about her years of mental and physical therapy she endured to get back to a place of feeling safe within her own body.

Are Colleges Enabling Rape?All students should feel like their school is a place for them to learn, grow, and discover the color of their soul. Female students shouldn’t have to looking around every corner, afraid of what they might find. This organization has created an open conversation about the aftermath of campus sexual assault, free of shame and victim blaming.

The fact that we even have to explain to a human being that they should not take advantage of another human being, be it in a drunken or sober state, is disgusting. We as a society need to change these phrases, these outlooks, and these perpetuations. No more of the “She had to be asking for it”. No more of the “Did you see how she was dressed? She must be embarassed, so she’s making it up”. No more of the “He wouldn’t do that,” and the “He was drunk, he didn’t mean it”.

No more excuses and inaction. No more victim shaming. No more ignoring survivors seeking help.

No more.

 

If you have been sexually assaulted, please know that this is not your fault. You are not alone, and you never will be. There are resources available to you. Check out End Rape On Campus (EROC) and the Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network. You can also call the National Sexual Abuse Hotline at 1-800-656-4673.

Know Your IX was launched by a group of campus sexual assault survivors to educate students across the United States about their rights under the Title IX of the 1972 Educational Amendment. The amendment states that all colleges and universities that receive federal funding are required to take action regarding gender based harassment and assault. Title IX is not about criminal justice, it is about the assertion of civil liberties and equal protection on college campuses.

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Reader Discussion: 56 Comments

  1. Cynthia Keller

    What I find so interesting is that so many people believe the core of the issues at hand are linked to alcohol and wearing of slutty clothes. Some people are ignorant, yes. Sexual and domestic violence bring shame to victims. No man or woman has a right to go beyond the word ‘no.’ And if he/she can’t consent, it also means no.
    Thanks for a great article.

  2. Renee Wilk

    Thank you for this excellent perspective!

  3. Esther Earl Harris

    Sexual assault can happen anytime, to anyone. I’ve read somewhere that the more innocent a victim, the more threatening they are. We shouldn’t blame the victims. Instead of blaming them, we should be afraid enough to educate ourselves and our loved ones. We should look for more productive ways to respond to this threat.

  4. Christina Brown

    Alcohol is not the problem, the availability or vice versa of alcohol won’t necessarily prevent a rapist from raping if the rapist decides to rape.

  5. Rosina McMillian

    Kudos to Cristiana! What a long and interesting article. Our society teaches distorted views about sex. Every single person has some degree of dysfunction related to sex because our society fail to teach the truth. We should help rape victims (mostly women) and help men too! (by helping them change perception and behavior). Survivors deserve our support, not our scrutiny.

    • Amber Billenstein

      What stuck out to me from your comment was that you said women are the ones that get assaulted and we need to teach men to not take advantage. But it’s not just women that get raped or assaulted. It happens to men too. We should teach EVERYONE how to stay safe and how to get help, and teach EVERYONE not to take advantage of other people. Assault isn’t gender-specific.

      • may47

        I understand that you mean well by your comment, but that is taking away from the experiences of women who are being raped on college campuses. Male rape does happen, but not nearly as often, unless we are talking about prison. Your comment is equivalent to saying “All lives matter” instead of “Black lives matter.” Yes male rape victims matter, but the problem we are talking about is sexual violence against women on college campuses which desperately needs to be addressed and dealt with.

  6. Frances Seifert

    Rape on College Campuses in a nationwide Epidemic. The fact these people want to keep it quiet, is nothing new or surprising.

  7. Amanda Roberts

    Definitely something wrong when criminals are allowed out over and over to prey. This happens with all kinds of crime and we know it’s wrong.

  8. Kimberly Thompson

    It does not matter who, what or were someone is raped. Rape is a horrible thing that destroys your life forever. I would like to see a documentary done about rape in general and about the flaws in our laws that allow these sexual predators to continue with their crimes.

  9. Mary Johnston

    Thank you for posting this today. It somehow translates to the cowardice of shooting and taking advantage of defenseless people. Sexual assault is a national issue, but it’s clearly an issue that’s taken on a particular urgency on college campuses. We need to work toward creating campus environments where sexual abusers are tolerated. Make rape victims feel supported and can speak openly.

  10. Emma Blackwood

    I agree that there are ulterior motives at play, but that doesn’t make “verbal harassment… including wolf whistling, catcalling and sexual noises” alright. It’s obviously not as bad as rape, but it’s still persecuting and shouldn’t be allowed. To call it “clumsy come-ons” is dismissive, juvenile, and actually helps the discussed cause.

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