This is a sponsored post written by me on behalf of Veru Healthcare. All opinions are 100% mine.
It’s easy to make a good first impression on a date, but now that you’re an official “girlfriend”, how do you remain the woman your lover just can’t get enough of? By being yourself, of course! But it can’t hurt to also try these fun suggestions that’ll make extra-sure you’ll be floating around his (or her) head all day long:
Make the Plans
Rather than waiting for him to call and suggest a typical dinner-and-a-movie, suggest something different. Like line dancing at the local community center. He (or she) will be amazed by your creativity and sense of adventure. And heck, creative dates are more fun anyway. He’ll remember the great time you had, and appreciate that you suggested it. #BrowniePoints!
Wear the Pants — and the Condom!
Feeling sexy? Men love it when women make the first move! Take charge and surprise him by getting randy in random places. Now you can get the FC2 female condom and insert it up to two hours before you seduce him. It’s pre-lubricated and easy to use. Now that’s sexy!
Want to get your hands on a FC2 female condom? You can buy FC2 online, get it for free from your doctor, or use code FC2 with the Hey Doctor App to score one.
Is it Hot in Here? Nope, Just Me
On a date, wear something that you feel über-hot in, like a cute little pair of lacy boy-shorts under your jeans. Even if you stay clothed the entire night, you’ll know they’re there and that extra boost of sexy confidence will definitely be passed on to your date. It’s just a little something to leave with him (or her) until the next meeting.
Be a Busy Bee
Seriously, nothing says “get away from me” like a gal with no outside commitments or interests. Mention your Saturday morning hiking club, how you volunteer at the food bank, and your weekly outings with the girls. Not only will you show him you have spunk and love variety in life, it’ll also create an extra dose of desirability. Let him also feel that he’s important by knowing the fact that you’ll have to squeeze him into your busy schedule.
Kissy Kissy
Knock his or her socks off with an incredible kiss goodnight. Go with what works for you – a light and soft appetizer smooch or a full-blown dessert snog – and you’re guaranteed a starring role in his dreams all night.
Inflate the Ego
This is an obvious one. Compliment him on what he’s wearing and how good he smells, lightly brush against his shoulder as you walk by, make lots of eye contact and smoldering looks. Knowing that a smokin’ sister wants him will make him want you even more.
Stay in Touch
Forget about playing hard to get, you’re a modern woman! Take charge of the relationship and let him know that you’re thinking about him. Think about how good it feels when someone calls just to say hello, or writes you an email just to say they miss you. Now, don’t go overboard with this (ie. stalking), because bombarding someone with text messages and phone calls will reverse the desired effect. Just play it cool, and you’ll put a little extra pep in his step.
Another empowering article from you, Hilary! Thank you!
I like the idea of female condom but hesitant to give it a try…
YES! BE A BUSY BEE! Give him attention, but whenever required. Hangout with him, but also meet your friends, family and relatives. Dine with him, but also attend your social parties.
Limited presence will be valued and missed 🙂
I wonder how lubricated female condoms are?!
Oh yeah! I’d wear my skinny jeans… and the condom ?
My boyfriend just dumped me because he said I wasn’t attractive enough for him.???
That’s terrible!! What a jerk. Don’t take it personally. Consider yourself lucky that you are rid of that prick!
Awesome tips! Sometimes I wonder why the ordinary woman has some guy falling all over himself to make her happy while the shockingly beautiful woman sits alone or with girlfriends, but no man.
Let me add one more: SCENT! Researches show “odor” turns him on. It is because smell is one of the most primitive senses — it travels a direct route to the brain’s limbic lobe, where it can promote an emotional reaction.
Oh! I wear a signature fragrance! It works!
I personally think FC2 femal condom is amazing! It not only protects women’s health but it promotes responsibilty of one’s self, promotes and encourages self worth as well as respect, which gives the power back to the women!
I agree! I think using female condom eliminates society’s expectations of men to provide the protection. This can ultimately create a sense of equality between couples.
For me, one of the selling points of the female condom is that, a woman has the ability to insert it hours before any sexual activity. Yeah, it can be inserted in advance but I feel it would be far too awkward to spend the day walking around with one.