This is a sponsored post written by me on behalf of Veru Healthcare. All opinions are 100% mine.
It’s easy to make a good first impression on a date, but now that you’re an official “girlfriend”, how do you remain the woman your lover just can’t get enough of? By being yourself, of course! But it can’t hurt to also try these fun suggestions that’ll make extra-sure you’ll be floating around his (or her) head all day long:
Make the Plans
Rather than waiting for him to call and suggest a typical dinner-and-a-movie, suggest something different. Like line dancing at the local community center. He (or she) will be amazed by your creativity and sense of adventure. And heck, creative dates are more fun anyway. He’ll remember the great time you had, and appreciate that you suggested it. #BrowniePoints!
Wear the Pants — and the Condom!
Feeling sexy? Men love it when women make the first move! Take charge and surprise him by getting randy in random places. Now you can get the FC2 female condom and insert it up to two hours before you seduce him. It’s pre-lubricated and easy to use. Now that’s sexy!
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Is it Hot in Here? Nope, Just Me
On a date, wear something that you feel über-hot in, like a cute little pair of lacy boy-shorts under your jeans. Even if you stay clothed the entire night, you’ll know they’re there and that extra boost of sexy confidence will definitely be passed on to your date. It’s just a little something to leave with him (or her) until the next meeting.
Be a Busy Bee
Seriously, nothing says “get away from me” like a gal with no outside commitments or interests. Mention your Saturday morning hiking club, how you volunteer at the food bank, and your weekly outings with the girls. Not only will you show him you have spunk and love variety in life, it’ll also create an extra dose of desirability. Let him also feel that he’s important by knowing the fact that you’ll have to squeeze him into your busy schedule.
Kissy Kissy
Knock his or her socks off with an incredible kiss goodnight. Go with what works for you – a light and soft appetizer smooch or a full-blown dessert snog – and you’re guaranteed a starring role in his dreams all night.
Inflate the Ego
This is an obvious one. Compliment him on what he’s wearing and how good he smells, lightly brush against his shoulder as you walk by, make lots of eye contact and smoldering looks. Knowing that a smokin’ sister wants him will make him want you even more.
Stay in Touch
Forget about playing hard to get, you’re a modern woman! Take charge of the relationship and let him know that you’re thinking about him. Think about how good it feels when someone calls just to say hello, or writes you an email just to say they miss you. Now, don’t go overboard with this (ie. stalking), because bombarding someone with text messages and phone calls will reverse the desired effect. Just play it cool, and you’ll put a little extra pep in his step.
I agree that you need to inflate the ego on both parties. We all want to feel validated in a relationship. Plus, I’m pretty sure a man and a woman wants to know that they look hot in each other’s eyes, no matter what. It’s probably also a way of showing appreciation that “Wow, I’m dating such a pretty lady / handsome guy.” And I’m sure all of us who are in a relationship are wondering what makes each other tick. Have you even wondered why the guy / girl is with you if you’ve been together for months and he / she hasn’t told you how attractive you are at some point?! ?
I totally agree! Unless the guy isn’t vocal or anything… But c’mon. It’s just a couple of words.
I’ve been hearing about the female condom for quite some time now and it scares me. How do you even take it off? Does it hurt? I’m already feeling anxious just by thinking of it.
Ooooh, nice advice… I’ll try it! Can the condom be used for oral, ahem, activities?? Like, does the lube on it taste ok? Is it non-toxic??
Men and women crave that ‘spiciness’ in a relationship. It sometimes gets a little boring when you two are so predictable even on dates. I mean, who wants to eat at the same place everytime you go out or argue over where you both should go? That’s never fun and in relationships, whether it’s the woman or the man, it’s nice to know that one of you can take the initiative of saying where you two can go because they know that you’ll enjoy it. C’mon, if you two are in a relationship, more or less you should know what each of you likes.
Interesting article. I better start doing this now. I just hope my boyfriend doesn’t think it’s fishy because most of these things are completely out of my comfort zone. The thing is, I’m willing to experiment a little because there isn’t really any harm on doing it.
Just tell him honestly that you read it somewhere and you want to try it! ?
My girl does most of these (except the condom) all the time and I love her to death. I’m going to ask her to use the female condom, cause I’m sick of being the one always having to deal with it!
The simple goal here is to really keep him wanting more. Kind of like a cliffhanger on every date or just after you see each other. However, it’s good to take note that you can’t always let him crave you. Let him give in too. And honestly, it’s very effective and it keeps my man wanting more. Not to mention, we’re both aware on how the thrill and that craving feeling really keeps our intimacy going. Before we sleep in our own beds after our date, we usually take the time to talk about what happened during the day. Which is why, I know my plans are working because he just can’t shut up about it!
Way to go, girl!
I really appreciate it when my man takes the time to discuss his plans for a date with me. He says I’m usually the one who creates the plans and that he likes that we’re doing what I like, but once in a while he said he enjoys wanting to make me happy too with a little bit of a surprise. But he still seeks my approval sometimes because he doesn’t want to end up going somewhere I wouldn’t enjoy 100%.
It’s funny how wearing something sexy underneath can really create a big change on a woman’s behavior.? Just like we sometimes feel that the reddest lipstick in our collection makes us look twice as seductive as well.
I don’t see why a woman would need this kind of article. Ladies, it’s not that difficult to seduce us, men. Just get naked and boom!! done!!