7 Exciting Seduction Tips: Keep Him Craving You

Relationships

How to become (and remain) the woman he just can’t get off his mind.

This is a sponsored post written by me on behalf of Veru Healthcare. All opinions are 100% mine.

It’s easy to make a good first impression on a date, but now that you’re an official “girlfriend”, how do you remain the woman your lover just can’t get enough of? By being yourself, of course! But it can’t hurt to also try these fun suggestions that’ll make extra-sure you’ll be floating around his (or her) head all day long:

Seduction Tips

Make the Plans

Rather than waiting for him to call and suggest a typical dinner-and-a-movie, suggest something different. Like line dancing at the local community center. He (or she) will be amazed by your creativity and sense of adventure. And heck, creative dates are more fun anyway. He’ll remember the great time you had, and appreciate that you suggested it. #BrowniePoints!

Wear the Pants — and the Condom!

Feeling sexy? Men love it when women make the first move! Take charge and surprise him by getting randy in random places. Now you can get the FC2 female condom and insert it up to two hours before you seduce him. It’s pre-lubricated and easy to use. Now that’s sexy!

Seduction Tips

Want to get your hands on a FC2 female condom? You can buy FC2 online, get it for free from your doctor, or use code FC2 with the Hey Doctor App to score one.

Is it Hot in Here? Nope, Just Me

On a date, wear something that you feel über-hot in, like a cute little pair of lacy boy-shorts under your jeans. Even if you stay clothed the entire night, you’ll know they’re there and that extra boost of sexy confidence will definitely be passed on to your date. It’s just a little something to leave with him (or her) until the next meeting.

Be a Busy Bee

Seriously, nothing says “get away from me” like a gal with no outside commitments or interests. Mention your Saturday morning hiking club, how you volunteer at the food bank, and your weekly outings with the girls. Not only will you show him you have spunk and love variety in life, it’ll also create an extra dose of desirability. Let him also feel that he’s important by knowing the fact that you’ll have to squeeze him into your busy schedule.

Kissy Kissy

Seduction Tips

Knock his or her socks off with an incredible kiss goodnight. Go with what works for you – a light and soft appetizer smooch or a full-blown dessert snog – and you’re guaranteed a starring role in his dreams all night.

Inflate the Ego

This is an obvious one. Compliment him on what he’s wearing and how good he smells, lightly brush against his shoulder as you walk by, make lots of eye contact and smoldering looks. Knowing that a smokin’ sister wants him will make him want you even more.

Stay in Touch

Forget about playing hard to get, you’re a modern woman! Take charge of the relationship and let him know that you’re thinking about him. Think about how good it feels when someone calls just to say hello, or writes you an email just to say they miss you. Now, don’t go overboard with this (ie. stalking), because bombarding someone with text messages and phone calls will reverse the desired effect. Just play it cool, and you’ll put a little extra pep in his step.

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Sarah Woodstock

Sarah enlightens us on a daily basis with the newest trends as (and often before) they transpire. She is the consummate globe trotter. Having traveled to over 70 countries, she earns her living writing, blogging (InsiderDiva.com) and modeling while on the road. In her spare time she gets manicures, suntans on yachts in Greece, shops for even more shoes, and lives in the limelight. She loves photography, elephants, sailboats, bangles and ballet flats.

Reader Discussion: 175 Comments

  1. The only people who have seen me without makeup is my best friend and my family. I would never, ever let anyone see me without it. Not even a boyfriend, lol. Next time ill wear make up and CONDOMS too! hahahah 🙂 LMAO

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  2. Every girl wants to look their best for their man. Me and my boyfriend will soon celebrate our anniversary and your tips are absolutely perfect!!! thanks for this Hillary!

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  3. This is the perfect article especially that it’s going to be Valentine’s day soon. I’m pretty sure most of us need a little nudge in our relationships. The big question is: How do I share this with my woman without offending her??

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  4. The Instagram link for Fc2 doesn’t work. I tried to enter the contest other ways but I don’t feel confortable linking my socials. Please pick me!

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  5. I always hear married men in my office complain about how their wives no longer make an effort of going on “real” dates with them. By real, they probably meant more than just dining in a restaurant they’ve been dining to for years. It’s a very simply cry, if you ask me. A very simple request that your husbands probably need from you but none of you has the guts to go back to that dating stage wherein it was all candies and rainbows.

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    • Wow that’s just sad. I’m a married woman and as simple as taking my husband on a movie date, I’d still ask him. If we’re both busy and can’t afford to eat outside, I even do candlelight dinners for us.

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  6. Men are like explorers by nature. The more mysterious that you are the more he’s likely to be curious. Don’t take this literally though, because it can be about almost every aspect–such as your clothes or your life. You don’t need to have a night of a sit-down wherein you’re about to tell him everything about you or that you have to parade yourself wearing nothing. Although sometimes that’s hot, it’s good to take note that even if your guy has seen you with nothing on, always leave something to his imagination.

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  7. Compliments boosts a guy’s self-esteem and seriously, when that sky rockets, he’s bound to love you twice as much. I’m not sure how that goes but he starts to feel like he’s such an amazing man when he’s with you. He will feel like he’s wanted and that he’s appreciated. As simple as it may sound, men can be such mystical creatures and even if they don’t want to admit it, they crave the constant validation of their looks and performance. After a good sex, feel free to tell your man how much you loved it. He’ll appreciate it so much.

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  8. You know how some girls say that they won’t try to be pretty anymore because they’re not trying to impress anyone else aside from their man? I think that’s wrong. Even if you’re in a relationship, there’s still someone you need to impress and that’s your man. The effort to look good doesn’t just stop as soon as the relationship begins.

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    • I disagree completely! If the guy is right for you, you shouldn’t have to play games like these. He’ll love you no matter what.

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  9. Fun article. Not sure why anyone would enter a contest like this though — it doesn’t even disclose what the prize is! Seems like a lot of effort just to win one condom. From a man’s perspective, the article rings true though, that men love a little bit of flirty gesture. Keeps our minds racing and thoughts whirling.?

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  10. OMG!! I just watched the video on the Fc2 website and OMG GROSS!!! I’m really freaked out now. There are videos of women who look like they’re 20 talking about using the condom and sex, pleasure, etc. to two nasty old men who are clearly over 50 years old. So creepy! Why not have it be all women??

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