This is a sponsored post written by me on behalf of Veru Healthcare. All opinions are 100% mine.
It’s easy to make a good first impression on a date, but now that you’re an official “girlfriend”, how do you remain the woman your lover just can’t get enough of? By being yourself, of course! But it can’t hurt to also try these fun suggestions that’ll make extra-sure you’ll be floating around his (or her) head all day long:
Make the Plans
Rather than waiting for him to call and suggest a typical dinner-and-a-movie, suggest something different. Like line dancing at the local community center. He (or she) will be amazed by your creativity and sense of adventure. And heck, creative dates are more fun anyway. He’ll remember the great time you had, and appreciate that you suggested it. #BrowniePoints!
Wear the Pants — and the Condom!
Feeling sexy? Men love it when women make the first move! Take charge and surprise him by getting randy in random places. Now you can get the FC2 female condom and insert it up to two hours before you seduce him. It’s pre-lubricated and easy to use. Now that’s sexy!
Want to get your hands on a FC2 female condom? You can buy FC2 online, get it for free from your doctor, or use code FC2 with the Hey Doctor App to score one.
Is it Hot in Here? Nope, Just Me
On a date, wear something that you feel über-hot in, like a cute little pair of lacy boy-shorts under your jeans. Even if you stay clothed the entire night, you’ll know they’re there and that extra boost of sexy confidence will definitely be passed on to your date. It’s just a little something to leave with him (or her) until the next meeting.
Be a Busy Bee
Seriously, nothing says “get away from me” like a gal with no outside commitments or interests. Mention your Saturday morning hiking club, how you volunteer at the food bank, and your weekly outings with the girls. Not only will you show him you have spunk and love variety in life, it’ll also create an extra dose of desirability. Let him also feel that he’s important by knowing the fact that you’ll have to squeeze him into your busy schedule.
Kissy Kissy
Knock his or her socks off with an incredible kiss goodnight. Go with what works for you – a light and soft appetizer smooch or a full-blown dessert snog – and you’re guaranteed a starring role in his dreams all night.
Inflate the Ego
This is an obvious one. Compliment him on what he’s wearing and how good he smells, lightly brush against his shoulder as you walk by, make lots of eye contact and smoldering looks. Knowing that a smokin’ sister wants him will make him want you even more.
Stay in Touch
Forget about playing hard to get, you’re a modern woman! Take charge of the relationship and let him know that you’re thinking about him. Think about how good it feels when someone calls just to say hello, or writes you an email just to say they miss you. Now, don’t go overboard with this (ie. stalking), because bombarding someone with text messages and phone calls will reverse the desired effect. Just play it cool, and you’ll put a little extra pep in his step.
Even as a woman I crave variation in a relationship. I start to get upset when everything seems to be flatlining already. BTW – what’s the sweepstakes for?
I really agree that it’s not only in the bedroom that you need to be “hot” towards each other. I mean not necessarily do it in public places or something, but have “unexpected touches” in random places. Just make sure no one sees because that’s going to be totally awkward. But men love the thrill and women do too. So why not do something about it if it’s something both of you really want? Speaking bluntly, “accidentally” let your body glide against his, or have your hands in “unexpected” places to drive him nuts. It’s worth an effort.
Men are crazy. They want something that’s usually out of their reach. Which is why this article said a little space or a little time away from each other gives him the time to miss you. I’m not sure we should be cool with that though. Maybe we should ditch guys who need space?!
Delayed gratification makes a man go crazy. I don’t think that’s in the list. A promise of sex makes his imagination go wild and your next date is bound to be a blast.
Exactly, I’ve tried this and it’s highly effective.
The spark in your bond won’t last if you don’t keep making efforts even outside of the bedroom. Even for women, it’s the same thing. You don’t really have to be a man to realize that when none of you is doing anything to fan the flames, then it won’t take your relationship further. That’s the reality. But the thing is, if you want to keep the relationship going, you’re bound to make efforts anyway. These tips are really great and basic. I’m sure any girl can pull this off easily.
Let’s not make it all complicated ladies, let’s just follow the instructions here and we’re good to go!
Well, if you want to feel like a man has all the hots for you, you can’t really expect that to happen unless you do something about it. A fire doesn’t lit up by itself nor does it keep burning without getting fanned.
The problem with male condoms is that sex becomes less pleasurable for men. Which is why they try to skip it whenever possible. If you can take the time to just go to your doctor before your sexy act, I can assure you it’s worth it. I’ve been on this for quite some time now. While I wasn’t sure at first, I wanted to take a leap to it because I wanted to upgrade my partner and I’s sex life. It didn’t fail me and I’m loving it up to this moment. Although I must say that for unplanned moments, you pretty much have no choice but to go old school.
Sounds like an okay idea for me.
Strategic efforts are sometimes needed in order to keep your man wanting you. It’s not as hard as we all think though. Because even this article says that a little appreciation here and there could do the trick.
My boyfriend does like the fact that we enjoy outdoor activities with friends rather than being all over each other all the time. We both think a little space keeps the fire in the relationship burning.?