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4 Reasons Why Men (& Women) Cheat

…plus, how to prevent your lover from cheating.

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How to Prevent Cheating in Your Relationship

When it comes to cheating, it’s not just the physical stuff that counts. Cheating can be purely sexual, purely romantic, or both sexual and romantic. So if you want to prevent cheating in your relationship, first you and your partner need to be on the same page about what’s cheating and what’s not. Once that’s in place, preventing cheating is kind of like diet and exercise; you probably already know what you should be doing, so it’s more of a question of whether or not you choose to do it.

4 Reasons Why Men (& Women) Cheat

In short, don’t take your partner for granted. Express your love and care for them often, and continue to deepen your connection as time goes on. Of course you want to feel comfortable around your guy (or gal), but don’t totally let yourself go. Taking caring of you won’t just keep you fetching; it will make every aspect of your life, partner aside, better. And make sure he knows just how much you appreciate him. Say it sincerely and often, and don’t forget to dote on him with the occasional reward or spontaneous gift!

Read more on this: 7 steps for preventing infidelity

Have you had any experiences with cheating? How do you prevent it? Start the conversation–share your thoughts with us below!

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Raised in California and North Carolina, Jen is both an actress and a writer. She loves writing fiction, especially for young adults, and exercising her non-fiction muscles through Urbanette and her chocolate blog: Chocofiles. Jen also loves adventures, yoga, live music and spontaneous dance parties.

Reader Discussion: 53 Comments

  1. The biggest reason for cheating is a lack of emotional connection or the feeling that you’re not appreciated by your partner as much as you deserve. Anyone could resort to cheating as a way to getting everything they lack where they are person even if it means going out of the relationship to achieve that. From an evolutionary perspective, a tendency for an individual to commit an infidelity stems from an attempt to increase the reproductive success at the expense of their partners.

  2. People cheating in relationship just because they find someone more beautiful girl or handsome guy. Or Find someone more financial strong Or Lack of physical intimacy in relationship these will the main important reasons people cheat in relationship.

  3. Why even bother giving people reasons to cheat? We won’t understand their reasons simply because we won’t do it. Cheating is a choice! and it is a wrong choice no matter what!

  4. The reasons are not important. Once you cheat nobody cares what your reason is. all the other one is gonna understand is you are a cheater!

  5. joseph pilar

    in all honesty, having been cheated on feels like shit. ladies cheat to replace, they don’t know how to play and just test the waters. they commit to whomever they are cheating with and invest feelings. fuck that shit, do you even know how guys feel after being cheated on? it’s like having been kicked in the nuts 57 times per second on a span of 3-5 years. you say we move on fast? I say it just doesn’t show. last words I will say to you those of you who cheated will cheat and probably go to them side dudes. y’all need Jesus!

  6. Osana Smith

    How can some people manage on cheating the person that they love? For me, it was a cruel thing to do.

  7. Jodi Thil

    You shouldn’t cheat when your not happy anymore. Have morals with yourself!

  8. Candis Melton

    Yes, it’s true. It’s better to broke up than to cheat. Cheating is such a wrong solution to be! Never right.

  9. Kathryn Gibson

    Honesty should come right next after getting into a relationship. Relationship nowadays just broken up after getting into a problem. They don’t resolve it. They just cheat to get out of their partner.

  10. Mildred Davis

    A cheater in a relationship is a relationshit.

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