Relationships

6 Ways to Find Your Soulmate

This isn’t your typical “do this and that” article. These tips actually work.

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1. Do your internal work

Whether it’s your past history, your fears, or your cycling negative thoughts about relationships / love in general, it’s vital that you give yourself the time and space you need to work through it. Clean up all of that internal gunk and prepare yourself to receive love openly.

6 Ways to Find Your Soulmate

Talk it out with someone you trust, write letters you’ll never send, tie off those pesky loose ends. Literally dump that “guy on the side” who’s taking up your time. Mentally say goodbye to the people who have broken your heart.

Allow yourself to be fully immersed in the present, in what is happening right now. Give your heart a chance to be open and free of encumberances. The more you can get out of your own way, the better.

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Raised in California and North Carolina, Jen is both an actress and a writer. She loves writing fiction, especially for young adults, and exercising her non-fiction muscles through Urbanette and her chocolate blog: Chocofiles. Jen also loves adventures, yoga, live music and spontaneous dance parties.

Reader Discussion: 88 Comments

  1. Mary Beyer

    Be prepared to compromise!!! #soulmate

  2. Thank you so much! Your article put so many things in perspective for me.

  3. Interesting article! It’s worth reading. Simple but enjoyable.

  4. Della Martin

    More often than not, we overlook the signals of incompatibility and settle for less. These are all helpful, Jennifer!

  5. Zoraida Martin

    Soulmate?! I think it’s a dopey concept…

    • To me, soulmates means someone who is a better match for you than you could have ever imagined. I found my soulmate in my husband. I don’t take it to mean anything religious…

    • Jannie Zoot

      I don’t think so, there’s definitely something that can exist between two people, something so strong and disruptive we can’t really understand

  6. Rosalia Russell

    I wonder — what’s the difference between soulmate and life partner?! ?

    • car

      I once met someone, we had the same thoughts at the same time, we were really somehow soulmate… but then it ended, do we have many soulmates or what?

  7. Lucy

    I want to find my soulmate, someone who deserves the very best from me (and vice versa)

  8. Carmen Griffin

    I’ve always believed that my soulmate is someone who meets my unconscious list of traits I’m looking for in a partner…

  9. Karen Abeyta

    Thanks for the advice! Going out now to find my soulmate LOL ? ?

  10. Andrea Jones

    Go out alone and be a magnet ???✡️

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