Relationships

6 Ways to Find Your Soulmate

This isn’t your typical “do this and that” article. These tips actually work.

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2. Take care of yourself in the same way you’d like your soulmate to

6 Ways to Find Your SoulmateSelf-love is the single most important practice you can engage in your quest for other types of love. It’s not always easy to project confidence, so do nice things for yourself that will help you get there.

Personally, I love to indulge with a mani/pedi. Do whatever it is that makes you feel wonderful. Watch a funny movie, plan a fun girl’s night, say your daily mantra, write down all your worries and self-doubts to get them out of your system—whatever!

Do you. Cherish what you’ve got going on, and treat yourself often. Then, you know what to do—put yourself out there and work it!

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Raised in California and North Carolina, Jen is both an actress and a writer. She loves writing fiction, especially for young adults, and exercising her non-fiction muscles through Urbanette and her chocolate blog: Chocofiles. Jen also loves adventures, yoga, live music and spontaneous dance parties.

Reader Discussion: 88 Comments

  1. Mary Beyer

    Be prepared to compromise!!! #soulmate

  2. Thank you so much! Your article put so many things in perspective for me.

  3. Interesting article! It’s worth reading. Simple but enjoyable.

  4. Della Martin

    More often than not, we overlook the signals of incompatibility and settle for less. These are all helpful, Jennifer!

  5. Zoraida Martin

    Soulmate?! I think it’s a dopey concept…

    • To me, soulmates means someone who is a better match for you than you could have ever imagined. I found my soulmate in my husband. I don’t take it to mean anything religious…

    • Jannie Zoot

      I don’t think so, there’s definitely something that can exist between two people, something so strong and disruptive we can’t really understand

  6. Rosalia Russell

    I wonder — what’s the difference between soulmate and life partner?! ?

    • car

      I once met someone, we had the same thoughts at the same time, we were really somehow soulmate… but then it ended, do we have many soulmates or what?

  7. Lucy

    I want to find my soulmate, someone who deserves the very best from me (and vice versa)

  8. Carmen Griffin

    I’ve always believed that my soulmate is someone who meets my unconscious list of traits I’m looking for in a partner…

  9. Karen Abeyta

    Thanks for the advice! Going out now to find my soulmate LOL ? ?

  10. Andrea Jones

    Go out alone and be a magnet ???✡️

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