Your One-A-Month Sex Bucket List
20 creative things to do every month to spice up your sex life.
Bucket List: #16. Try New Positions
Make a pact that you’re only allowed to have sex in the same position once a week. Once you’ve gone through the standards, you’ll have to get creative. You don’t have to attempt the Lotus position while hanging from a chandelier; if it’s too difficult, it can just end up being uncomfortable rather than sexy. Instead, try some interesting twists on the classics. For example, if you’re on top, twist ninety degrees to the right so your bodies form a cross, which will cause more friction for both of you.
Bucket List: #17. Blindfold Him
Cover his eyes with a blindfold or scarf and tie it gently behind his head—blocking out his vision will heighten all his other senses. Take your time kissing and caressing his entire body. If he’s not too ticklish, you can also use a feather or fur to stroke the sensitive parts of his body. Not knowing what you’re going to do next will drive him crazy.
Bucket List: #18. Make Up Kinky Rules
One of my friends—who shall remain nameless—had a deal with her boyfriend that he’d get back-door action on public holidays. Let me tell you, that man looked forward to Thanksgiving more than anyone I’ve ever known. But by the time New Year’s rolled around, she was ready for a break! Make up some fun rules—like Birthday Blow Jobs or October Oral—and you’ll have something exciting to look forward to.
Bucket List: #19. Make a Sexy List
Sit down together with a glass of wine, a pen, and paper. Make a list of every sex act you’ve ever heard of—from the most vanilla to the raunchiest. When you’re done, go through the list and take turns saying whether each act is a ‘yes,’ a ‘maybe,’ or a ‘no’ in your books. You might find there are certain things you’re both curious about but have never tried. If so, cancel dinner on Saturday night because you have plans!
Bucket List: #20. Pleasure Yourself
Masturbation is often viewed as a personal, almost sneaky act—but why not share it with your partner? You can masturbate each other, but you might also find that your partner gets turned on by watching you pleasure yourself and vice versa. Satisfy your voyeuristic side by stimulating yourselves simultaneously—you’ll see how exciting your sex life can be without even laying a finger on each other.