This is a sponsored post written by me on behalf of Veru Healthcare. All opinions are 100% mine.
It’s easy to make a good first impression on a date, but now that you’re an official “girlfriend”, how do you remain the woman your lover just can’t get enough of? By being yourself, of course! But it can’t hurt to also try these fun suggestions that’ll make extra-sure you’ll be floating around his (or her) head all day long:
Make the Plans
Rather than waiting for him to call and suggest a typical dinner-and-a-movie, suggest something different. Like line dancing at the local community center. He (or she) will be amazed by your creativity and sense of adventure. And heck, creative dates are more fun anyway. He’ll remember the great time you had, and appreciate that you suggested it. #BrowniePoints!
Wear the Pants — and the Condom!
Feeling sexy? Men love it when women make the first move! Take charge and surprise him by getting randy in random places. Now you can get the FC2 female condom and insert it up to two hours before you seduce him. It’s pre-lubricated and easy to use. Now that’s sexy!
Want to get your hands on a FC2 female condom? You can buy FC2 online, get it for free from your doctor, or use code FC2 with the Hey Doctor App to score one.
Is it Hot in Here? Nope, Just Me
On a date, wear something that you feel über-hot in, like a cute little pair of lacy boy-shorts under your jeans. Even if you stay clothed the entire night, you’ll know they’re there and that extra boost of sexy confidence will definitely be passed on to your date. It’s just a little something to leave with him (or her) until the next meeting.
Be a Busy Bee
Seriously, nothing says “get away from me” like a gal with no outside commitments or interests. Mention your Saturday morning hiking club, how you volunteer at the food bank, and your weekly outings with the girls. Not only will you show him you have spunk and love variety in life, it’ll also create an extra dose of desirability. Let him also feel that he’s important by knowing the fact that you’ll have to squeeze him into your busy schedule.
Kissy Kissy
Knock his or her socks off with an incredible kiss goodnight. Go with what works for you – a light and soft appetizer smooch or a full-blown dessert snog – and you’re guaranteed a starring role in his dreams all night.
Inflate the Ego
This is an obvious one. Compliment him on what he’s wearing and how good he smells, lightly brush against his shoulder as you walk by, make lots of eye contact and smoldering looks. Knowing that a smokin’ sister wants him will make him want you even more.
Stay in Touch
Forget about playing hard to get, you’re a modern woman! Take charge of the relationship and let him know that you’re thinking about him. Think about how good it feels when someone calls just to say hello, or writes you an email just to say they miss you. Now, don’t go overboard with this (ie. stalking), because bombarding someone with text messages and phone calls will reverse the desired effect. Just play it cool, and you’ll put a little extra pep in his step.
I read somewhere that even for married couples, you’re supposed to keep doing these efforts. Why? It’s because even after you’ve surpassed the boyfriend and girlfriend stage, you still need to keep him craving you. This is where marriage usually fails. They think that everything stops as soon as they graduate into marriage. Not to be TMI on this but my husband and I sometimes sends sexy texts to each other! It’s even twice as effective when you try to do it before we go home from work, because when we get home, we know we’re finally going to see each other. I’ve been married for 5 years and while I know it’s not that long, we’re bound to a good start.
I’m a tad skeptical about using the female condom. My man doesn’t mind using the normal one so I guess we should just stick to that.?
You’ll never know until you try, tbh.
A simple text can blow your man’s mind away. Send him promiscuous messages that would drive him insane. That always works for me.
It’s true that it’s nice to know that despite the two of you having other commitments other than each other, you can fit each other into your busy schedule. Not so much of a grand gesture but it’s always well appreciated. It is a bit of a turn off when your man isn’t busy at all (especially if it’s most of the time). It’s going to make you feel like you’re just something to keep the boredom away or he’s not exactly a family man. If he’s not committed to work and his other plans, how on earth can he commit himself to you?
Ladies let’s just admit the fact that we want our man to think of us all the time, so we try to do these things on purpose. We love acting sexy just to make them squirm on their seats.
Okay, I’ll admit it now. Hah!
That condom looks nasty — I googled it and it looks like you just stick a plastic bag up your cooch. Yuk!
It’s a little weird to think that I’m going to go to my doctor before I have sex. I don’t really feel comfortable asking my doc (he’s like my grandad’s age!) about sex stuff!
Staying in touch is really important. As a woman, sometimes I feel like if a man doesn’t text me good morning, I’m not his first thought as soon as he wakes up. I feel better knowing that before both of us start our busy day, we’ve both made each other feel that we’re important. Sometimes, simple gestures such as saying hi or asking a person if she ate already are one of the things that keep relationships alive. It’s not being clingy or anything like that. It’s just letting each other know that even during a very busy day, I’m thinking of you and I’m looking forward to seeing you again.
Goodbye kisses create such an impression to guys, so ladies, make it good! Hahaha! ??
Men do love it when women make the first move. It doesn’t always have to be us, ladies.