The power of a fantasy is amazing. Yet few couples ever indulge in each others fantasies. Some feel that fantasies are private issues that shouldn’t be exposed. Others are just too embarrassed to fully release their fantasies to anyone. Others are scared they won’t be able to fulfill them, so they’d rather not open pandora’s box.
In an open and healthy relationship, fantasies can provide the much needed escape from reality. Openly sharing these inner secrets with your partner unlocks hidden desires that will benefit both partners. It is always better to know the secret sexual desires of your partner than it is for him (or her!) to keep them locked inside. Awareness is power.
Do you know exactly what your lovers sexual fantasies are? Most women think they do. At the same time, most can’t describe the fantasy in detail. Remember: detail is a major key to fantasies. When your partner is visualizing his (or her!) ultimate sexual encounter, he is very detailed about how things are developing. How his mind formats the fantasy is of extreme importance. Knowing that his innermost secret desire is a threesome is not enough. Details are what arouse and bring out emotions.
The million dollar question now is, how do you get the juicy details of your lover’s wildest fantasy?
First and foremost, realize that he (or she) may be apprehensive about detailing his secrets to you. Your first order of business is to set him at ease. His first concern is that you may find his fantasy upsetting. Assure him that breaking down this barrier will benefit your relationship in many ways. Opening up to each other is healthy and will help build a solid, unified relationship.
Once you’ve assured him that he can confide in you, the next step is to use effective questions. To get him talking about his fantasy, ask questions that bring out details. How does it begin? Where is it happening? What acts or positions are going on? What about the fantasy excites him? When does he climax? You can also enhance the details by adding your own comments. Excite him with your participation.
A great time to bring out these conversations is at night, while laying in bed. Done correctly, this can be a personal romantic time that will flame the fires of passion. This should be an enjoyable experience for both of you. Be playful. Let your mind go and indulge in the moment. You now have the power to unleash the tiger in him (or her). Enjoy!
If I need my man to be really really great in bed. I just argue with him with the most trivial matter and just bring out past just for some more flames. And when it’s all said and done, We will have the Best MAKE UP SEX in the entire world. A little tip for you guys, don’t go pushing buttons you can’t undo. just saying.
Sexting in an awkward situation is kinda our thing. Whenever we are at work, We send nudes of ourselves or just sext just so the other party knows what’s about to go down later in the day. One time he sexted me while he is in an important meeting. Being the wicked fox that I am. I much happily obliged. Next thing I knew, I got a text from a co-worker of his showing that he has a boner and can’t hide it. the funniest shit in my entire life.
Sexting is awkward in it self.
One time I got out of work early. got bored and don’t want to go home yet. I picked up my boyfriend at that time and had my way with him in an abandoned alley near our apartment building. We both enjoyed it and too this day it’s still my favorite.
Never go lingerie shopping for a guy. Fucking dumb fucks. My ex-destroyed a pair and just said sorry he didn’t mean it. he just wants to take it from me as fast as possible. That shit expensive!
I had an ex like that. Likes to rip my clothes whenever we go ham on it. Great sex, Expensive tho.
Bathing together is a really good idea. We can be as dirty as we want inside the bath but we can also get cleaned because we are in the bath. Total waste of water but worth it none the less
One time when watching a movie on our couch I just playfully whispered in his ear “I want to sit on your face right here right now” while grasping his thigh tightly. Next thing I know he’s counting how many licks it would take to get to the center of a tootsie pop. Oh, how good that feels.
The “i want you right now” lines are just irresistable to anyone. It’s a weapon nobody should wield without proper training.
I always surprise my boy with me in the bath and just inviting him in. After work? a hot bath is a really refreshing experience. If you know what I mean.
Bathroom sex is always sexy.
Just don’t let him touch you. Every time he tries automatically walk away. until he gives up and you go near him. and whisper, “you still can’t touch me”. Then the fun part starts.
Why unleash the tiger in him first? Bite his neck! you are the beast he cannot tame. He needs to learn where he is in the food chain! You are the apex predator!
One time we are a restaurant in Manhattan and suddenly got the urge to tease him. I went to the ladies room and pulled off my panties. bundled it up nicely and went back to our table. Handed him my little gift and immediately realizing what I gave him. He asked for the bill and ended that dinner and went straight to our bed. Luckily I could control my self enough to not let him do it with me right away. Best decision I ever made that night.