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Thinking About Cheating? 12 Reasons Why You Should

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Am I going crazy?

Thinking About Cheating? 12 Reasons Why You Should

Human nature allows a cheater with a guilty conscience to eventually become paranoid. Knowing that you can cheat and maintain a normal relationship with your boyfriend or girlfriend will leave you wondering if the other person is equally capable of such actions.

Psychologically the impact of cheating can drive a person mad. Pun intended, people. Not just angry-mad, but crazy-mad! It is actually more fulfilling, selfishly and selflessly, to simply avoid the paranoia by not cheating, thus avoiding speculation of someone doing it to you.

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Born and raised in Texas, Shelly is currently studying to receive her Master's Degree in Publishing at the University of Houston - Victoria.  Shelly is a writer for Urbanette Magazine, and loves "everything it is and all that it offers our readers, and to me personally". She is passionate about life, family, friends, her maltipoo, Truman. She is a lover of all things culinary and the arts (13 year veteran of ballet).

Reader Discussion: 155 Comments

  1. Avatar of Ronnie

    Ronnie

    I’m regretting falling in love with my partner. To begin with, I fell in love with an alcoholic who later became sober within the first year of our relationship. Her sobriety is great, however it showed me the true person that was under the drunken lie. I adjusted my life to help her stay sober and it’s working for her, however it’s taking a toll on me and all the accommodations I’ve made to continue to be in a relationship with her. She’s pushed me away many times over the course of our relationship and even told me if she was me she wouldn’t be in the type of relationship she’s putting me through. She’s so inconsistent in her mind and heart that it’s stifling me now. I recently tried to pull away and take a break, to give her the space and freedom she wants. When I did, she kept reaching out and wouldn’t allow me to clear her from my mind. I came back and not even a week later she was back to being her lame, inconsistent, empty promising, over obsessed with her family’s approval (she’s Latina, deep deep deep deep deep obsession with her family of alcoholics who never knew how to show her love and affection) lackluster self in our relationship again. I have never cheated in any relationship I have been in BUT now I am strongly considering. Simply just to cleanse my mind, body and spirit of her energy. It’s a sad truth and reality that I’m faced with right now.

  2. Avatar of Dean

    Dean

    No cheater will let their significant other have access to their device which is why it has become so hard for people to get evidence of infidelity. You can break rules to get the peace of mind you deserve. There are only a few people who can pull this off and you have to be extremely careful. 
    I had to put up with a cheating partner for almost two years until I decided to get evidence since I had nothing on her. It was a tough decision but it was necessary!

  3. Avatar of Nora

    Nora

    Women cheat on men all the time too…. or at least think about it. I’m not sure why everyone is only focused on men cheating when I know plenty of women face the same problem

  4. Avatar of Diana

    Men who think they’re so attractive cheat. They feel like it adds a length to their thing whenever they cheat. Too bad, because no it doesn’t.

  5. Avatar of Dawn Breedlove

    Dawn Breedlove

    Excitement really dies. Eventually you’ll get bored of the thrill and what has become of that new found relationship of yours? Nothing.?

  6. Avatar of Tara Todd

    Tara Todd

    I saw on my newsfeed once about the ad in the billboard when her husband cheated. Kinda thought it was real but that was funny af.

  7. Avatar of Paula Wilkins

    Paula Wilkins

    I’ve heard it so many times that men who cheat will blame their partners for their inadequacy. If there’s anyone who’s inadequate, it’s the man who decided to cheat just because of petty reasons. Heard this a lot before and I’ve met men who are worse than the other. Men who want to cheat will find reason in their partners so that they can continue to keep on cheating. I pity those women who get victimized by them because there are times that they would blame themselves.

  8. Avatar of Sarah Brady

    Sarah Brady

    OMG at that photo of the guy who has a tarpaulin hanging on his neck about cheating. That is so funny ? CLASSIC!!!

  9. Avatar of Maggie French

    Maggie French

    Men sometimes argue that cheating is subjective and I’m like… ???

  10. Avatar of Eula Cox

    Eula Cox

    I’m so glad I found a guy who cheated before but completely changed. I know some of you might say that I should watch out, but I know for sure that he’s changed.

    • Avatar of MARIA

      MARIA

      Lucky for you, because most women have to deal with cheaters who won’t stop.

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