Thinking About Cheating? 12 Reasons Why You Should
You may not have considered these…
What about emotional connections and sexual bonds?
I know for a fact, as a woman, that the emotional connection that comes from satisfying sex with my boyfriend creates a bond; a bond that is strengthened each time we are intimate with each other. Adversely, if one of us were to cheat, eventually the intimate connection and instances of intimacy would decline.
Whether your sweetie finds out or not, cheating inevitably has an emotional impact on the relationship and the individuals. Women seek to feel emotion; they thrive on it. Women find that they connect through emotion, and sex strikes a very emotional chord.
As a woman (or a man), just knowing that your relationship has been tarnished can disconnect you emotionally, even if slightly. There is always the trade-off; satisfying sex with your boyfriend/girlfriend for an occasional fling. This is definitely an act of self-sabotage!