Relationships
Thinking About Cheating? 12 Reasons Why You Should
You may not have considered these…
It’s their fault
The Blame Game is the cheater’s favorite game, because it allows justification for what he or she already knows is bad behavior. Rather than exploring the option of addressing mental and emotional issues that lead to thoughts of betrayal and eventually the act of betrayal, many cheaters would excuse themselves by placing blame. Excuses like, “I don’t get enough attention,” and “They’re never home,” are classic quotes.
Blame is the easy out. It allows the cheater to acknowledge the bad behavior, and justify it at the same time, without having to take responsibility or address the root problem. Often, the cheater fears a too-heavy emotional and mental burden if confronted.
Avoidance leads to blame, and blame to self-sabotage and the constant undermining of both parties’ self-esteem.
Nora
Women cheat on men all the time too…. or at least think about it. I’m not sure why everyone is only focused on men cheating when I know plenty of women face the same problem
Diana
Men who think they’re so attractive cheat. They feel like it adds a length to their thing whenever they cheat. Too bad, because no it doesn’t.
Dawn Breedlove
Excitement really dies. Eventually you’ll get bored of the thrill and what has become of that new found relationship of yours? Nothing.?
Tara Todd
I saw on my newsfeed once about the ad in the billboard when her husband cheated. Kinda thought it was real but that was funny af.
Paula Wilkins
I’ve heard it so many times that men who cheat will blame their partners for their inadequacy. If there’s anyone who’s inadequate, it’s the man who decided to cheat just because of petty reasons. Heard this a lot before and I’ve met men who are worse than the other. Men who want to cheat will find reason in their partners so that they can continue to keep on cheating. I pity those women who get victimized by them because there are times that they would blame themselves.
Sarah Brady
OMG at that photo of the guy who has a tarpaulin hanging on his neck about cheating. That is so funny ? CLASSIC!!!
Maggie French
Men sometimes argue that cheating is subjective and I’m like… ???
Eula Cox
I’m so glad I found a guy who cheated before but completely changed. I know some of you might say that I should watch out, but I know for sure that he’s changed.
MARIA
Lucky for you, because most women have to deal with cheaters who won’t stop.
Tabitha Green
How can they have the opportunity to heal when they won’t stop cheating? It becomes an unending cycle.
Sophie Cross
Other idiots would often argue that as long as they’re not having sex with the other woman, it’s not cheating. They would often say that chatting with someone is not cheating because it “doesn’t mean anything”. Cheating starts the moment you stray and you invest your emotions to other women other than your partner. Cheating is cheating guys. I don’t care what your definition is but when it’s not right, it’s not right. Keep your thingies inside your pants!