The power of a fantasy is amazing. Yet few couples ever indulge in each others fantasies. Some feel that fantasies are private issues that shouldn’t be exposed. Others are just too embarrassed to fully release their fantasies to anyone. Others are scared they won’t be able to fulfill them, so they’d rather not open pandora’s box.
In an open and healthy relationship, fantasies can provide the much needed escape from reality. Openly sharing these inner secrets with your partner unlocks hidden desires that will benefit both partners. It is always better to know the secret sexual desires of your partner than it is for him (or her!) to keep them locked inside. Awareness is power.
Do you know exactly what your lovers sexual fantasies are? Most women think they do. At the same time, most can’t describe the fantasy in detail. Remember: detail is a major key to fantasies. When your partner is visualizing his (or her!) ultimate sexual encounter, he is very detailed about how things are developing. How his mind formats the fantasy is of extreme importance. Knowing that his innermost secret desire is a threesome is not enough. Details are what arouse and bring out emotions.
The million dollar question now is, how do you get the juicy details of your lover’s wildest fantasy?
First and foremost, realize that he (or she) may be apprehensive about detailing his secrets to you. Your first order of business is to set him at ease. His first concern is that you may find his fantasy upsetting. Assure him that breaking down this barrier will benefit your relationship in many ways. Opening up to each other is healthy and will help build a solid, unified relationship.
Once you’ve assured him that he can confide in you, the next step is to use effective questions. To get him talking about his fantasy, ask questions that bring out details. How does it begin? Where is it happening? What acts or positions are going on? What about the fantasy excites him? When does he climax? You can also enhance the details by adding your own comments. Excite him with your participation.
A great time to bring out these conversations is at night, while laying in bed. Done correctly, this can be a personal romantic time that will flame the fires of passion. This should be an enjoyable experience for both of you. Be playful. Let your mind go and indulge in the moment. You now have the power to unleash the tiger in him (or her). Enjoy!
Sex toys is also a tool to make your partner unleash him sexual fantasies.
Play with your THING girl!!! Get that sexy lingerie and dance exotically!!!
I’m a honest person specially to my husband. I always appreciate everything that he do for me. When it comes to SEX sometimes I tell him what I want and i don’t want and he do the same also. In that way I feel his respect for me and most especially his love for me…
Unlike you don’t have the guts to tell all of my sexual desires to my partner. But I’ll try… Wish me luck!
SEX for me is define as the art of expressing love and connection with one another. That connection will start through being sincere to your feelings and being true to yourself. And most of all through being honest to your partner.
Very Well Said!!! Being true to yourself can make you and your partner happy!!!
Everyone of us deserves better SEX. Everyone is looking for some one who can give them want they want. And I think the better way to find that is to discuss your desires to your partner. There will no effective way than that! Trust me I’m a Hustler! Hahaha…
I’m on fire right now! It’s gettin hot in here!?
I’m not a kiss and tell person. But share all of my desires to my partner. I think it’s important for him to know it because it helps him to know what to do and what he can improve so that we can both enjoy the moment..?
SEX plays a big role to a relationship. As for me it’s not just about lust but how to make your partner feel loved.?
I agree to that! Sex it’s a way of showcasing your feelings and love for your partner…
First of all HAPPY VALENTINES DAY!!! Let us unleash the sex tiger in our partners! Enjoy!?❤️?
Sharing sexual desires is not a big deal specially to married couples because both partner should know who to make your partner happy. It’s a commitment to your partner.